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Originally posted by Spiramirabilis
reply to post by 27jd
They can turn that on and off at will, since they generally do not harbor high testosterone levels (of course there are exceptions), i envy that.
:-)
I want to be very careful - because I am NOT picking a fight
but - do you really believe this to be true?
I ask - because I think many men DO think this is true
Originally posted by heyo
i am not a reader of minds!!!!
I do.
Yes, I know, I should be careful in my choice of words. Those two have gotten many a person in trouble (including myself - more than once).
...Based on years of observation, I am forced to the conclusion that the vast majority of women have absolute and total control over their libidos...
i will let all you guys know what women really want. we want a guy with a good head on his shoulders. intelligent, charming, witty, carefree, fun, adventurous, romantic, and sensual. We also like men who can show their emotions and dont have that tough guy exterior at all times
Originally posted by wylekat
reply to post by calihan_12
i will let all you guys know what women really want. we want a guy with .......
Suuure you do. Some of us know a tad better than that, k?
Originally posted by Misfit
Originally posted by wylekat
reply to post by calihan_12
i will let all you guys know what women really want. we want a guy with .......
Suuure you do. Some of us know a tad better than that, k?
Would you shut the hell up already !!! ATS is innundated with your mindless spewing of hatred against women. Everybody that has read so much as just one of your posts knows this already. Quit your damn incessant whining, and get on with your life. You never once have thought that it takes TWO to screw a relationship - no matter your part in that relationship, you were a part of it. If a woman screwed you over, you allowed it to happen. Either become celebate for the rest of your life, or start dating dudes. In either case, I am not the only one who is far past annoyed with your pissy little crying fits. You are just like that NewJersey gym murderer, all he did was cry about his failed relationships with women, never looking at himself as to HOW to make a change for the better. Go cry in your beer, go cry to your momma (or do you hate her too), just quit friggen crying here!!
[edit on 8/22/2009 by Misfit]
Originally posted by calihan_12
wow, well said
Originally posted by injunfeller
women are simple, the ones that think they are complicated are usually just mentally scarred by various events in their life. probability of them being happy with any guy, perfect for them or not is pretty low. Conquer the demons within or you will live without...
love it, hate it, doesn't matter...your acquiesce is not a prerequisite of reality
guys, be a man, instead of the boy you were raised to be and act like, and the world as well as your luck with women will change for the better.
[edit on 21-8-2009 by injunfeller]
Originally posted by liveandlearn
reply to post by TailoredVagabond
I was reading your post and thinking "Hmm, maybe a little over generalization and stereotypical but he seems to be sensitive and gets it"
Then you went and added this
Women are very good in pretending like they aren't insecure too (to men at least! A BIG difference with women. I know so many women who will say "of COURSE we're insecure!") - the simple truth is something many women don't (seem to) realise that they hold the sexual trump card in 95%+ instances. Guys are all too aware of this, even if some are deluded.
A guy can go out and think we can get lucky, a woman can go out knowing she WILL.
What is lucky about going out and spending the night with a stranger that you have no emotional attachment to when you had rather be with someone you care about?
Lucky is two people who care enough about each other to understand (or try to) when the other is having a problem.
Lucky is knowing that person will be there to help you through it and be there when it is over.
Lucky is knowing that person would never walk out hoping to make it better for him/herself by betraying the relationship for a cheap night with a stranger.
That would certainly make me insecure.
Originally posted by wylekat
reply to post by 27jd
It's been more than one- And the main problem has always been "Dont be who you are, be someone ELSE." I am not, NOT going to go and rewire myself, and not act like myself, and not BE MYSELF so I can have me some. I have had women literally RUN from me, just because of how I LOOK. Or how much I do (or dont) make. not a thing is said about my personality, how loyal, honest, good, nice, smart, funny, creative, resourceful, NOT A SINGLE SOLITARY thing that would make me, ME. Just how do I look, where's the money.
This has happened nearly nonstop for 20 YEARS. All American women. All the same 'needs', all of them shallow.
A @)*#)(*($* manual, or how to guide to understand woman is NOT supposed to be needed! It's supposed to be love, it's supposed to be good reasons for attraction. Not this 'the view' or 'oprah' bull*cough*
Originally posted by liveandlearn
reply to post by calihan_12
Too bad more people don't realize that crying is such a stress reliever.
There are time I want to cry and hold back till I eventually do what ever it takes to get it out. Just a brief pity party with the crying and getting it all out, even though it is just me alone. Next day I am sooo much better.
Is this a woman secret? If so, too bad for the guys who feel the need to be macho. Then they may have another way to work out their sadness.