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well the short answer is for me, is no.
“Life and death are one thread, the same line viewed from different sides.” - Lao Tzu
i 've just returned to this thread
asking what people want on their headstone and when they say they don't want a headstone, you reprimand people, described existing posts as 'negative' and tell people to put some real thought into it
Then you cite what YOU did when YOUR father died as example.
Meaniing what --- that you expect people who've been good enough to boost your thread to start coming up with 'headstone ideas' that YOU approve of ?
Perhaps you should put some real thought into what you've said ?
And perhaps you should listen to what those who've boosted your thread have written.
NO. I do NOT need a lump of granite to remind me of those who've moved on.
NO. I do not want a headstone. I'm not you. I don't need a material reminder in order to think of someone who has passed and those I value don't need a lump of rock to remind them of me.
Please think about this and accept that not everyone has the same beliefs as you.
and not everyone HAS to hold the same beliefs as you.
Now, I hope you're grateful for the fact I've grown your thread by two posts.
I won't expect you to thank me, seeing that you consider my posts as having no value, because they don't conform with YOUR ideas about life