posted on Aug, 16 2009 @ 04:46 PM
I won't have one because i'm going to be cremated. I don't want my family to feel obligated to come visit my grave, or feel guilty for not
visiting. It's unnecessary as i wouldn't be in the grave anyway, it would just be my physical shell in there.
I've already told my sons that i don't want the usual three day wake and then a funeral, just one day if they want one and i don't want that doom &
gloom music playing. I want them to play Marvin, the Temptations, Al, Smokey, all the good Mowtown and of course classic rock. I want it to be a
celebration of my life, not mourning my death. They can all sit around and tell stories of all the fun times and the crazy stuff that i've done. I
want them to feel the happiness of the good times, not the sadness of my death because i will never really be gone as long as they have good memories
of me in their hearts.
And then i want them to take my ashes (and my dog's ashes) and spread them at the lake, my absolute favorite place, and smoke a big fat one for me.