reply to post by lost_misfit
I hear you and know exactly what you mean. It's true the bible says it's better not to marry. When you marry you will be of this world as your
thoughts will be with your wife or husband instead of on God. Most Christians have ignored this and have twisted it around making it almost a
requirement to get married and procreate. Where it is actually spoken of as a kind of failure in the bible, a failure to control your flesh, in 1Cor
7, it is instead celebrated by Christians. But it sounds like you might be restricting yourself a little too much. It does say that it is allowed to
you. It is better to marry than to burn, it says. So it is saying basically God knows some people cannot control their passions and so it is not a sin
to get married and have children, and it is allowed. No restriction is put upon you to not get married. It says you will have trouble in the flesh but
you aren't sinning if you do. Don't get too hung up on it.


In order to obey one commandment they have to break the big one, can anyone really say
that makes any sense?? NO. 
