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Originally posted by heyo
Originally posted by spellbound
reply to post by heyo
YES!
WOW WOW WOW.
Of course every child has a right to a decent life - that does not necessarily meant that the child will get a decent life.
Originally posted by spellbound
reply to post by heyo
YES!
WOW WOW WOW.
Of course every child has a right to a decent life - that does not necessarily meant that the child will get a decent life.
Originally posted by heyo
reply to post by lardo5150
It is definately a slippery slope. However, we are getting nto an area where children are going to have to possibly be taken from their loving parents because they spanked them.
I agree with the above poster who laid it out like spank your kids until they can be reasoned with, and even past that. It seemed to work in my case because the memories of the spankings were for the most part, enough. They, at that point, have hopefully learned that if you don't "compromise", then you get hurt, in one way or another, and that's an important lesson for kids to learn, giving a little.
Originally posted by antar
reply to post by ladyinwaiting
Ah TY it is true, it may take a few times and actually it only works I should have added if they get ample attention other than negative interaction at other times, all times, lol, you know they will do what ever it takes for love and attention.
If children just blend in to their parents world without enough love and care, they will make their parents give thetm attention by doing whatever they can.
All we can really hope for is to not mess them up! And that has never happened from love and guidance.