posted on Jul, 30 2009 @ 03:23 PM
No offence James but if people are crossing the road to avoid you, there must be something in it.
Whether it's your look, by that i mean fashion, or maybe your facial expressions, or just the way you walk.
Thats not to say you are not a friendly chap, but even you said "sometimes i'm friendly". Does that mean sometimes you're not? Do people know you
from the times when you haven't been?
It's a difficult one, and one i have experienced even as an adult. People have told me i walk and sometimes look as though i'm about to kick
someones head in lol.....but that could not be further from the truth.
Yes i have a confident walk, and am very aware when i'm walking, but i'm the most mellow guy in the world. I do have a bit of a scowl on my face at
times, but thats not a nasty thing, i think it's just the way my face is lol.
Some people just look daunting, but are actualy soft as muck and really nice people.
Here in the UK though, i have to admit the hoodie thing has put a negative aspect on all teenagers unfortunately.
So as for your situation, i'd take a look at either your dress sense, or mannerisms....not that you should change, but if it affects you enough to
mention it here, maybe its something you could look at.
[edit on 30/7/09 by CX]