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reply posted on 18-7-2011 @ 11:02 AM by VforVendettea

I laugh when I saw a Simpson's episode where Nelson was made to wear a shock collar.
Sad to say that is what many children I see running amok at the malls now less than 15 years later actually need.

Shame on the parent's for not gaining the child's respect before it got to that stage.

reply posted on 18-7-2011 @ 11:50 AM by NuclearPaul

Not spanking a child when it deserves it leads to the obvious. They grow up thinking they are invincible and can do as they please without consequences.

TPTB know this.

This sets a perfect scenario to medicate the children later because of "mental illness". And the stressed out parents can probably do with some "help" too...

reply posted on 18-7-2011 @ 04:19 PM by lovinlatinonews

We adopted 3 children ( 2 from Mongolia and One from China) after having 5 children. Our "Bio" children where physically reprimanded when need be ( seldom and usually with a safety issue) BUT we had to sign a document that we would NEVER spank our adopted children..and we never have.

The little ones are 6, 8 and 9- doesn't seem to have negatively affected them in any way.

reply posted on 19-7-2011 @ 10:11 AM by SmArTbEaTz

reply to post by Amaterasu

Try telling that to the many families that have been killed by their own kids!

I whoop my daughter sometimes, but I explain to her why she got whooped and I do not yell at her. She does not do timeout crap, and I feel it's foolish to send your child to a corner for something bad they did... and will continue to do as soon as they get out of the corner. You have to explain to them why they got in trouble and punish them so they remember. If I tickled my kid for hitting my dog with a stick... what is that teaching them? That's it's funny??? So what are you going to do when they steal your car with a friend when they get older? Is that a time out too? Maybe when they drain your bank account for drugs and pawn your valuables you might understand what SOME parents go through.

I explain the rules, consequences for not following the rules, and follow through on them. So are you still calling ME lazy?

Walk a mile in person's shoes before you cast judgement...

reply posted on 19-7-2011 @ 12:41 PM by Amaterasu

Originally posted by Amaterasu

Originally posted by unityemissions
I appreciate your view, but think it's a bit flawed and out-dated. I think "punks" are more a result of collective pressures. It's a societal problem, not a familial one. Feed their mind with what interests them, and they will grow wise and successful.

Here, my friend, you are SOOO correct. I bolded the part that is especially true.

My book uses this fact, in part, and would be honored if you would read it. It's linked in my sig.

Above is what You replied to...

Originally posted by SmArTbEaTz
reply to post by Amaterasu

Try telling that to the many families that have been killed by their own kids!

You make this sound as if this problem runs rampant. Given the number of times I have heard of kids killing Their family members, I would recon that at most, one incident a year is a bit high on pegging the average.

Given this, and presuming seventy five million families in the US - with 300 million people, this is a good approximation, I'm guessing - that makes for a VERY small percentage. Statistically speaking, NIL.

Not so many, actually. And this then suggests that such problems are an aberration, not even remotely a norm. And no, One cannot solve EVERY problem 100%. Aberrations will still appear.

I whoop my daughter sometimes, but I explain to her why she got whooped and I do not yell at her. She does not do timeout crap, and I feel it's foolish to send your child to a corner for something bad they did... and will continue to do as soon as they get out of the corner. You have to explain to them why they got in trouble and punish them so they remember. If I tickled my kid for hitting my dog with a stick... what is that teaching them? That's it's funny??? So what are you going to do when they steal your car with a friend when they get older? Is that a time out too? Maybe when they drain your bank account for drugs and pawn your valuables you might understand what SOME parents go through.

Y'know, I suspect that MY child would do none of those things. But I cannot answer the questions because a great deal more about the situation - Our relationship, number of times the behavior has been manifest, and so on - to come up with a strategy. As for tickling... Believe Me, just because there is laughter involved, does not mean the experience is enjoyable, desired, and sending any "funny" message. Most children avoid being tickled like the plague.

I explain the rules, consequences for not following the rules, and follow through on them. So are you still calling ME lazy?

I'm calling no One lazy here. Why do You ask?

Walk a mile in person's shoes before you cast judgement...

I walked many such miles. I have a child.

edit on 7/19/2011 by Amaterasu because: I failed tags again.

reply posted on 19-7-2011 @ 01:27 PM by BlesUTP

i am all for it.

and to the posters who claim that getting a spanking just made them want to do more wrong... you obviously werent getting the hint. i mean, how many times can a parent repeat themselves before they tire of talking to someone who isnt listening.

im not saying torture the kids, but a good backhand will get the point across. people today have become too soft. i used to get beat when i would bring home bad grades and talk back... and guess what? i learned to get good grades and not talk back.

edit on 19-7-2011 by BlesUTP because: meh

reply posted on 23-7-2011 @ 02:53 PM by SmArTbEaTz

Originally posted by SmArTbEaTz
reply to post by Amaterasu

Try telling that to the many families that have been killed by their own kids!

You make this sound as if this problem runs rampant. Given the number of times I have heard of kids killing Their family members, I would recon that at most, one incident a year is a bit high on pegging the average.

Given this, and presuming seventy five million families in the US - with 300 million people, this is a good approximation, I'm guessing - that makes for a VERY small percentage. Statistically speaking, NIL.

Not so many, actually. And this then suggests that such problems are an aberration, not even remotely a norm.

Watch and read then because it's happened more then a few times over the past few months...