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Originally posted by undermind
Waaaay too many of the big daddy family tyrants are completely ignorant and incompetent and just copy their father from the fifties or sixties or whatever because they've never known the path of the heart in a family.
I don't think you have the same definition for the word as I do, but that's off topic.
Originally posted by DaMod
Lol! I love when people twist the things I say to use the word ego.
Spanking should only be used maybe 1% of the time.
You're acting like I don't believe in time outs or other forms of discipline!
If your kid steals your car and you do nothing about it then they will undoubtedly do it again!
If the punishment undercuts the crime then they would do it again.
Limited perceptions? No, not limited, you obviously tie spanking to the same bow as beating a child senseless. They are not one and the same.
Extreme physical abuse causes emotional trauma, discipline inspires 2nd thought to a wrongful action. People have used physical discipline for hundreds of years, and in my opinion those children turned out better than our current self righteous, entitled, disrespectful youth that has no regard to anyone but themselves.
Welcome to the new age of parenting I guess.
You think I would like to spank my kids?
You must do what has to be done in order to insure a proper upbringing.
In fact the spanking method really only needs to be used once just to put the thought in there. They will know you are not kidding around when they step way out of line. They will be sure that it doesn't happen again.
You are putting spankers in the same category as those who come home drunk every night and beat their children black and blue.
Do you put the same undertones on spanking as you do with say washing a child's mouth out with soap?
Originally posted by DaMod
reply to post by RogerT
Anyone that knows me will tell you that I am anything but egotistical.
Originally posted by [davinci]
One final thought to those who feel that talking is the best and only approach: If I see you are being ravaged by a dog, do you want me to yell at it, or beat it off of you?
Originally posted by RogerT
reply to post by DaMod
Never mind. I didn't have a lot of confidence that you would fully understand the post, but others may draw some value from it so I made the effort.
No personal attack was meant or intended, my sincere apologies for any offense/suffering I have caused you with my words.
Originally posted by Bombeni
Originally posted by RogerT
reply to post by DaMod
Never mind. I didn't have a lot of confidence that you would fully understand the post, but others may draw some value from it so I made the effort.
No personal attack was meant or intended, my sincere apologies for any offense/suffering I have caused you with my words.
Well don't take this hard, but DaMod, if he didn't fully understand your post, wasn't the only one.
Are you a parent? What is your age? Since you seem to be so full of parental wisdom, please endulge us with some firsthand accounts of your parenting experiences.
Originally posted by Bombeni
reply to post by jeasahtheseer
Wow that is sad that you had a childhood like that.
I grew up in the 60's and it was pretty standard to get your butt spanked if you did some crappy thing. Certainly getting whipped/spanked was not a daily thing for most kids, only if they pulled a real nasty trick. Mostly, just knowing you could be whipped/spanked kept us in line. None of us was ever abused though, and looking back and I think wow how did my mom and dad do it, raise 4 kids, both of them work fulltime jobs, and everyone of us turned out to be self-reliant, never in jail, etc.
What you speak of is abuse. No one is advocating abuse.
an act of aggression (as one against a person who resists)
acting with or marked by or resulting from great force or energy or emotional intensity; "a violent attack"; "a violent person"; "violent feelings