reply to post by richierich
Listen, cops have a tough job, whether you'd like to admit it or not, and you never know what situation they just got back from. I am not referring
to Crowley, but rather your assertion that common courtesy is not required at all times for a uniformed police officer. They could have just been at
the scene of a murder, working a 12 hour shift, dealing with a domestic disturbance case, could have got socked in the nose trying to subdue a purse
snatcher.... etc. Oftentimes they have a short fuse dealing with a lot of effed up stuff all day, and the last thing they want is another kid or
uppity soccer mom yelling at them for pulling them over for no reason.
I don't care if I'm in the wrong, I'm going to say "yes sir, no sir" to a police officer because:
1. He has a gun and a tazer and I dont.
2. He has the ability to arrest me and stack charges or find violations he would have otherwise ignored (i.e. expired car registration).
3. It gets him off my case a LOT quicker and gives him less reason to waste my time.
What, do you think being rebellious to a police officer gets you more ATS cred or something? All it's gonna do is get you more tickets. Who are you
trying to impress? Are you trying to make a point or something?
It's COMMON FREAKING DECENCY to be nice to a PERSON serving their community. When you show empathy for a human being working a rough job, it shows
through, and they tend to go lightly on you, sometimes even dropping the ticket altogether because you were nice to them.
Sometimes it's a lot SMARTER to lick their boots and play by their rules. "Yes sir, no sir" tends to get you a LOT further than "What exactly did
I do wrong? I didn't do anything wrong!" Being overly defensive to ANYONE gets you nowhere. It's a lot smarter and productive to be level-headed
and cool about the situation, and calmly address your grievances to the officer.
Scenario A:
"Hi Officer, may I ask what I did wrong?"
"You were going 65 in a 40 zone."
"Ah, I'm sorry about that, yeah I messed up, well I'm late for a job interview. Isn't there some way you could let this one go?"
"Sorry, you'll have to leave earlier next time."
Then he writes you a ticket.
Scenario B:
"Can you tell me why you were going 65 in a 40?"
"Because I am LATE for WORK and if you keep holding me here, I'm going to sue you for lost wages if I lose my job! WHAT'S YOUR BADGE NUMBER? I'm
going to get you fired!"
"Calm down sir. Next time act a bit nicer and I might have ignored the expired registration sticker and busted tail light."
He writes you 3 tickets instead of 1.
Being mean to a police officer gives them more leverage to mess with you and tilt things in their favor if it ever comes to trial. Disrespect for law
enforcement makes them think you're the type who disobeys the law in general, to the point that you might be carrying around crack rocks in your
pocket or something.
It's just smarter and makes more sense to be calm and collected, and it makes them treat you a lot less harshly, in my experience.
Right, we know about the Alex Jones-esque "police state" paranoia and social engineering going on, but since when has it ever been acceptable to
cause anarchy in the face of an ambassador of the government?
It's like walking up to a beehive and hitting it with a baseball bat and not expecting to get stung.
"When in Rome, do as the Romans do."
[edit on 26-7-2009 by northexpedition]