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Originally posted by Jess_Undefined
And this goes for toys also. My kid has millions of toys, and he has no need what so ever for new ones. Yet when I set a rule that nobody is to buy him any new toys for awhile, she still comes home from the store every single day with yet another new toy that I said I didnt want him to have.
So my question is, does anyone else have to deal with a mother in law you absolutely dont get along with? Tell me stories!
Originally posted by Jess_Undefined
For one, I have a two year old son. And I dont like him eating off other peoples plates because he never finishes his own dinner if he does. And of course I made this clear on several occasions. But as they make there plate and go in the living room, I go in to see them letting him take bites of there food. Even after I stated at least 5 times he wasnt suppose to.
And this goes for toys also. My kid has millions of toys, and he has no need what so ever for new ones. Yet when I set a rule that nobody is to buy him any new toys for awhile, she still comes home from the store every single day with yet another new toy that I said I didnt want him to have.
Originally posted by Tripple_Helix
Well, I would throw a fit. And take the car back to the store. Or, you could give her a taste of her own medicine....
I am also having problems with my mother in law.... I keep on doing things for her like inviting her for dinner- or to come and swim at our house and have a barbeque on really hot days as they do not have a pool. I buy her little gifts all the time, hoping she will at least notice me and that I care about her and want to connect with her. But instead, what she does is give my "fiance" all the credit for everything I DO for her... I am so sick of it. Sick of trying and sick of her snide remarks that are always said with a smile on her face !!!!!
Originally posted by Jess_Undefined
Well I have an update. Yesterday they went out and bought him a 400 dollar battery powered car.
Originally posted by Jess_Undefined
With my significant other being unemployed, we are forced to live with his parents.
Originally posted by Tripple_Helix
Dear Jess,
Please ignore the above comments as these people obviously have no idea what it is like to live with a Narcissistic mother or mother in law. It is something you will never understand until you directly experience it. Just take it day by day and keep her at arms length. It is all you can do other that cut contact all together.