posted on Jul, 17 2009 @ 02:29 PM
I did read your post;and, you have some great advice.
Myself, i have to balance my own ego. I can get into the heat of it, if i choose. My decision is to either reflect the negativity or to withdraw. Of
course sometimes it is impossible to withdraw, gracefully. In other words--leave!
I can remember being screamed at once by a significant other over some trivial things. I had grown to endure it, but eventually, i gave up. So, when
it happened this time i could actually hear what was being said, but, i found that pink floyd was playing in the background; and, i focused my
attention away from the screaming and to the music. It was almost trancelike; amplifying the music and dampening the anger directed at me.
I was watching an angry person and the lips move; but, my mind was elsewhere.