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Originally posted by Greenize
How many of you have ever looked at a member of your own sex and decided that you hated them based solely on their looks?
Maybe you are in the mall shopping with your spouse or significant other and you notice that they are checking someone else out. Now as I woman, I know that the first thing that pops into my mind is "what a B****!" Why? She didn't do anything...she is just walking in to mall shopping just like I am. It just so happens that my husband was staring at her....its not her fault...
Men what goes through your mind when you catch your spouse/significant other checking out another man?
Do you get angry or upset with her, or the man that she was ogling?
Why do we react this way? Is it simply jealousy or is it more than that. Is it a feeling of being threatened and feeling the need to be on the defensive..to fight so speak for what is "mine/yours"? My husband tells me all of the time that I am beautiful, so why should I be ready to kick some butt when I see him looking at someone else...it is only looking after all... Do you wonder what your partner is thinking as they are eyeing someone else...I think that is the thing for me that upsets me...go figure. What is it that upsets you when you see your partner is focusing their attention on someone else and why? Aside from the fact that we are human....
[edit on 15-7-2009 by Greenize]
Originally posted by JulieMills
HA!! at first glance I thought this thread was about Sarah Palin...