posted on Jul, 14 2009 @ 04:17 PM
reply to post by Armisteadmg42
There are all kinds of ways. Some use alcohol, depression, etc... Bad form would be to go on a multi-state killing spree... it tends to be frowned
Unless they take your stuff, breaking up is not a big deal. The best thing to do is to get back up, dust yourself off, and jump back into the game.
Dunno how women do that (probably by talking about it.. non-stop, forever... blah blah blah), but guys that are old enough can do things like go to
strip clubs, get some hookers and blow, or just go out and get laid (your buddies don't wanna hear it, they'll suggest basically the same thing).
People can suggest all kinds of psychobabble, but that's the long and short of it. It's not all that complicated. Forget about all the 'great
guy' stuff. Women don't want a great guy. They are not conditioned to want a 'great guy'. Take charge. Don't ask her what she wants to do on
a date, tell her what you two are going to do. When you pick her up, ask her if she's ready even if she looks ready... you are doing her a favor by
going out with her.
Seriously, just get back out there, and be yourself. Smile back, be polite, small appropriate jokes/comments go a long way... no standup material.