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reply to post by KSPigpen
As much as I hate to admit it, you might be on to something.
But what about the couples that have stayed together for 50 years and don't even HAVE sex anymore?
Do you plan on getting old, smoke? I know I didn't.... but surely you don't believe that there is no more to a relationship than sex....surely.
Doesn't that strike you as kind of shallow? What would happen if, heaven forbid, something happened to you and you couldn't perform any more? What would life be worth to you then?
Originally posted by BrainPower
i think this should simplify the matter....
here is why. in the first, both partners agree and consent. in the second, there is an expectation of monogomy from both parties. one party breaks said expectation. If cheating (meaning here that there is an expectation of monogomy and one party, or both break it) wasnt wrong, then why is there a need to HIDE it.
problem solved....now if only we can crash those servers
So you'd rather people stay together forever in an unhappy relationship and suffer than get divorced ? It's a person individual choice if they wish to cheat, personally I hate them for being spineless to avoid getting out of the relationship, if they're not happy they should talk about it and if they can't fix it they should get out. It's better to be happy out of a relationship than to stay in an unhappy one, no matter what responsibilities one has, it's also better for a child to have 2 separated happy parents than be in the middle of 2 unhappy parents who think they are forced to stay together. It amazes me how during the times of the Romans sex was not a taboo (you can see this from the artwork of the period) and then somehow society has managed to make it a taboo and something bad.
Yet most people in a relationship call their partners their best friends. Why do you think that is smoke ?
Because they put out and their normal friends don't ? Or do you think that maybe there's more to it than that ?
Originally posted by Bluebelle
And this is the reason that Im considering being a crazy old cat lady as a viable option!
Either that or I just wont get involved with someone who has an iphone
Originally posted by metaldemon2000
Bottom line is people are getting sick of being tied down to one person forever but many dont have the guts, or the convenience of leaving that person. Especially in these times where just about every aspect of our society has some form of sexuality embedded into it. Who can resist? Everyone is having lots of sex with alot of people.
Originally posted by Zosynspiracy
reply to post by Cameoii
So you'd have no problem with your daughter being a prostitute? Oh wait......as long is it's not your daughter right? I mean if you're so for its legalization you'd have no problem with your daughter laying on her back to make a living right? I mean afterall if she's cute enough she would probably make more money than she ever would going to college.