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thing is - you want to be pro - you keep implying that you might not be - but you try...but they make it so hard - but then...
forgive me for finding the humor in your predicament - but your honesty is appealing
you're about as open minded as it gets - going by some of the statements you've made - but you're just like so many straight guys I know - you're just so straight :-)
Really - don't you think? It bothers you - because - it's not your issue - and by that I mean - I think you actually ARE tolerant. It's a complication people never factor in - people who don't have issues with a group feel slighted and bothered by the implications of the whole "we're here - get used to it" statement - they feel: I haven't done anything wrong - quit yelling at me
don't take it personally is all - all this fussing and fighting is going to be with us for quite a while yet I'm afraid - we need to try and remember the reasons behind it
just guessing really - not everyone gets hit on that often - in one lifetime even :-)
It was meant to be humourous, my post, because in the end no real harm was done and it's just a reflection of my outlook on life. I try to find good in every bad. Normally I'll find the funny side :-)
I detest being preached to but I do welcome a nudge in the right way to understanding.
I feel like I'm lying on the sofa being analysed lol
You hitting on me? I can't help seeing the humour in being hit on by a lassie on a thread about gays
You are female right? I don't think I can handle you being a guy. Then again, it'd be another funny to add to my list!
Humour is the best! You have to try and laugh.
I am not in any way annoyed with your post regarding your thoughts on me. Honest.
You could have at least played along for a bit of banter and wound me up and said you were a guy lol This site could do with a lot more humour in my eyes.
...I remember doing a paper on Tennison's Lady of Chalot/Shalot (sp?) at school (half my life ago) and guess what? The guy who sat next to me in that English class was gay! How weird is that?
Edit: Removed. I reflected over what I wrote and decided that it was somewhat bias and not entirely accurate. I did this to prevent anyone else referring to this post and taking the thread off topic. Please ignore this post.
Back to Einstein...Why? What makes you uncomfortable having a homosexual around? Now we listened to a rather nasty story in here about gay men virtually attacking a heterosexual man using sexuality. Clearly he wa put off and that is an uncomfortable situation.
Now please...don't give me the 'you don't believe me thing.' I am telling you here and now that I do believe the story. What I don't believe is the presumed factors behind it.
Gay men try to seduce a straight man. He wants nothing to do with it. The gay men get more brutal and try a bit of force. The straight man defends himself. Now people blame that on the fact that they are gay but let's consider this..
Maybe the key factor isn't homosexuality, it is harrassment. Anyone who is truly harrassed will be bothered by it. To the person in that story I ask you this...If two attractive women harrassed and pushed them on you in the exact same manner, how would you react?
The way I see it is if you reacted the same way then your issue is with sexual harrassment and not homosexuality. If not then I think you are terribly hypocritical because allowing one type or group to do something or get away with something that another can't is a bias situation.