As extreamly open minded that I am.. and by my own way of life I can just say this..
There is a time and place for everything!!!
Straight couples making out in public is a bit tacky.. Gay couples making out in public is also Tacky!!
And most my gay friends will agree.. Life is just life.. and you can not make everyone happy!!
The best bet is just to be happy.. and Find a time and place to show your affection.. Holding hands and hugging is all good!! For anyone!!
But grinding and making out full force in public is just as I said.. Tasteless.
And if kids are around. Its even more tasteless!
Most the time it comes down to be respectful.. And both sides have their fair share of disrespect!!
Also to add.. Im all about gay rights. ect ect..
But things are moving a little to fast.. Some of these people are going to have to take it down a notch!! We came a long ways in the last few
I say take that time to take in the victories already at hand.. And slow it down a bit.. And people will come around sooner or later.. BUT not
everything.. Thast just life.. You wont have 100% agreement on any issue at anytime where everyone agrees.. Its a big world out here.
And its never a good idea to shove your ways upon others!! And vise versa.. People are more willing to come around in their own time.. Then if
someone or a group of people try to force anything to fast..
Timming is key.. And everyone both gay and straight need to take their own time.
And I just think sometimes gays and supporters are pushing things a little to fast right now.. Granted its okay to push.. But when you have a Big
win.. Give it some time to set in..
In the last few years.. Things are really starting to look good for humans being able to love another human reguardless of gender..
And nothing wrong with that.. So with all that said.. Im just glad things are going much better than they did before..
Yet we know.. You can't please them all.. And there is a Time and place for all things!!!
Not saying if you are gay stay in the closet or anything AT all! BE Gay and proud if you like.. Just have a level of respect..
Yes most Gays have morals too.. And the gay guys I know.. They don't act like the hollywood Gay guy you see on TV..
They go out mudding with me.. Drive trucks.. Never hit on straight people..
And most people wouldnt even know they are gay.. They act like you and me.. Not that stero typical gay guy who prances around and acts all frilly and
That to me is an issue that Gays are going to have to deal with in their own circles of life..
Its not up to non gay folks to dictate that..
Trust me.. Theres more in fighting within the gay world.. Than straight VS gay.. And thats what makes this hard to explain..
AS I have been to the gay bars plenty of times.. And the average gay guy who likes to drink beer, talk about sports, hang out at a BBQ.. really look
at those stero type gay guys and do a face palm..
Then you have the trannies, and drag queens.. Thats a whole other issue..
But trust me when I say.. They are their own worst enemies at times..
Most gays turn on their own.. And spread just as much hate as the typical person who stands Against gay rights.. Its a little disturbing.. But its
When a group of people are hated on.. Then tend to turn that hate in on eachother or themselfs..
[edit on 11-7-2009 by zysin5]