Originally posted by JaxonRoberts
reply to post by truthquest
I hate to break it to you, but the state already sanctions marriages. Try getting married without a state marriage license. ALL marriages have to be applied for and granted by the state, regardless of where they are done, and the person officiating the ceremony must be approved by the state, hence the "by the powers granted to me by the state of ________, I now...". And when you can get married in a drive-thru chapel in Las Vegas, the whole religious 'sanctity' thing goes right out the window...
Nice try, but your argument is at best, flawed...
You don't seem to understand my argument. I was talking about the way things SHOULD BE, not the way things are right now. I know that the state wrongfully butts its nose into people's personal relationships by "sanctioning" marriage. But it does not have to. George Washington never asked government permission to be married from what I hear.
Again, marriage is a personal matter which is none of the state's business. One can hold a marriage ceremony without state approval if they really wanted to (I know I will for example) and its quite likely at some point in the near future I'll be proving that point because there is no way in hell I'm going to ask any government for their permission to get married, nor will I be paying any amount of money to be married.

