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Originally posted by XXXN3O
The other day I was going into a building and held the door open for a female which I would consider to be manners. I thought nothing of it as its in my nature to let people go before me if they look in a hurry, not just women either.
The woman stopped and called me a sexist pig before demanding I walk in the door first. I tried to explain that I thought she was in a hurry as she ran over but was snapped at yet again.
[edit on 7-7-2009 by XXXN3O]
Originally posted by UmbraSumus
Somewhat related :
The size of the community you live in .
I would imagine that if you never have to see somebody again if you so wish , perhaps you would suffer less "blowback" from being rude/ than if you lived in a small community.
Originally posted by XXXN3O
The other day I was going into a building and held the door open for a female which I would consider to be manners. I thought nothing of it as its in my nature to let people go before me if they look in a hurry, not just women either.
The woman stopped and called me a sexist pig before demanding I walk in the door first. I tried to explain that I thought she was in a hurry as she ran over but was snapped at yet again.
[edit on 7-7-2009 by XXXN3O]
Originally posted by DrumsRfun
I use my manners so much people actually notice it and mention it.
Not quite here as this is a forum but in real life I have noticably good manners.
Its how people are raised these days.
There is a sense of self entitlement that makes people think manners don't really matter.
[edit on 7-7-2009 by DrumsRfun]
Originally posted by JaxonRoberts
When I was growing up (the 60's and 70's), manners were not an option. To not use expressions like 'please', 'thank you', 'excuse me' etc., was considered rude and improper. Nowadays, however, manners and decorum are a thing of the past. Children no longer ask for things in a civilized manner, instead they demand them (I work in a restaurant and see this daily), and adults are no better.
You can see it in politics. You can see it online. You can see it in the grocery store. You can see it at your favorite fast food joint (usually from the customers, but sometimes from the employees as well).
So, please tell me, what ever happened to simple manners?
And I thank you in advance for your insights on this subject!
[edit on 7-7-2009 by JaxonRoberts]