reply to post by Hazelnut
Fom your first post i felt that you were leaving important pieces of your story out, that the blame game was in full mode and that you
have not accepted your own blame in the tragic childhoods that it seems all of your children have had to endure.
So I read the whole thread trying to figure out if i am just a cold hearted bitch for my lack of sympathy until you got to your
conclusion post and i realized that the tone of both posts is one of "look what everyone has done to ME?" Sorry but you have had at
least 2 ( you never concluded what happened to the youngest child after sexual molestation charges were brought and you "just did not
believe")children legally taken away from you for being an unfit parent, not once but twice. How convenient that both of your ex
husbands wives were the same religion as your mother and were just as big of zealots. So everyone just decided to team up against
you huh? Nothing was your fault, poor you.
I think you have probably fooled yourself into believing your own story to relieve the guilt that you should feel.
You didnt even bother to look at your daughters charges of sexual abuse by your third husband???? WTH is wrong with you? I have 3
children and if one of them said that someone touched them I am going totake it very seriously.
Maybe you did get a bad ride here, maybe your mother, ex's and their wives decided to team up against you, maybe you have no
fault and have been an angel of a mother but I doubt it because your own lawyer told you to give it up. I went to court with my
ex husband over my oldest child, HE HAD NO CASE BECAUSE HE HAD NOTHING AGAINST ME BECAUSE I AM A GOOD MOTHER. My lawyer would never have said
to just give up well just because. And all of a sudden you care about the girls on the stand yet you didnt even bother to question the
sexual abuse charges????? Give me a break.
I am not defending the religion but this thread should never have been about religion, the religion is an after thought in this
I know I will get trashed for my lack of sympathy but i dont care, bring it on.
I have 3 beautiful children that I love more than life, I have and will continue to do everything in my power to give them stability,
happiness, love, understanding. a great childhood, respect, hope, etc. My oldest is from a previous marriage and we went to court and I remain
and will always remain the full custody parent, the full time mom. Do not try to tell me the court system screwed you, I know my way around
the system and yes many can get screwed but in most cases it is because the other party has more money for a better attorney or knows
someone who knows someone.
Please stop trying to off your guilt on to everyone else and accept your part and then do everthing in your power to build loving relations
with your children.
If you look at my posts on this board you will see I am for the most part a hippie boho who loves all and tries to see all sides but I cannot
just sit here and let everyone pat you on the head and help you continue to deny your role in all of this.