reply to post by Republican08
Thanks for the compliment my new friend.
The best way to describe it is this. Context and framing is everything for the human being as a meaning making phenomenon, and it's decisive. Context
and framing is generated through language, in whatever form, and a shift from one contextual frame of reference to another in communication, where
"the meaning of communication is the response you get" provides access to a NEW WORLD of possibility so that it can be made manifest. Access to that
new domain however, will exist for the other in the realm of an unknown unknown known, or what they didn't know they didn't know they knew already!
In the re-frame, a new distinction is made, so that what was unconscious, becomes conscious and this sudden flash of insight or awareness jump/leap,
pulls the new world into being for that person and they experience something novel, which will impact their whole being and materialize for them a new
tool box they might not otherwise have had access to.
Everyone is already unconsciously competent in potentia, and all information is already contained within the holographic mind/universe, so the trick
is to figure out how to create a gateway access to it, so you need to read between their lines, gather in all available information about them, and
then insert a lever as a point of leverage, which to be effective, must reside at the edge of their blind spot or their unknown unknown in a
provocative way, so you might have to "jerk their chain" to get their attention, and be willing to risk hurting their feelings whereby "that which
hurts, instructs." The reframe then steps in immediately, containing a revelation of some kind, and the new light of conscious awareness enters into
the darkenss, producing a transformation, and a new realization, whereby all happiness resides relative to some unhappiness already experienced!
What I tried to do with you there, was to get you to alter your contextual frame of reference, from using NLP to being NLP, and more than that, a
phenomenon of transformation relative to these people and the dead world they represent, and if you really got that, it would be empowering, to the
nth degree, given the underlying nature of the spiritual (psychological) warfare that must be waged, but without judgement only love.
And you "got it", but you are mistaken if you think it came from me!
It came from the holographic mind and universe, and transmitted itself and was generated within you, and I was just a channel. Call it universal
holographic NLP where I can transmit it because I believe in the realm of infinite possibility, and that is my fundamental presupposition.
And if this has helped you to really serve these people better, then that's just wonderful.
Like I said, try the experiment of "acting as if" you already love each one of them very deeply, as you do the person you most love in the whole
world, and get that flowing as an unconsciously competent communications skill, and then observe how that reframe alters the whole world starting from
within that sphere, and see if you can't blow out this phenomenon of negativity, resignation and cynicism and hopelessness. What a challenge! What an
opportunity!
Best Regards,
Rob
OmegaPoint
[edit on 27-6-2009 by OmegaPoint]