Feel like your life is on "standby" until 2012?, page 1

reply to post by xynephadyn

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The first thing you need to do is stop reading ATS.

It would be interesting to know how many other feel this way.

Women had baby’s in war time some lived some didn’t, 2012 will come and go if we are all here or not is another matter.

The point being that you can’t stop life worrying about what might not happen.

reply to post by xynephadyn

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I am genuinely sorry you feel that way. I too was feeling like this but I changed my attitude and decided that I was going to especially enjoy all the things that I like. I am here to experience as many things in as positive a way I can. And nobody or nothing is going to stop me!

Oh, and I try to be super nice to my husband and children and let them know all the time how loved they are.

None of us knows how long we've got. You've got a choice. You've always got choices. As a famous person (no idea who!!) once said, "It's not how you die that you will be judged. It's how you lived.

Oh yeah, I remember now. It was a line out of the movie Vertical Limit.

reply to post by xynephadyn

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1st. i'm not a woman. 2nd you need to put something down about
your hubby darlyn. how does he feel? so far all i can say is if your that
concerned about it.what a sweet mama your going to make and theres sure not anything wrong w/ that. so don't let sarcasm get in the way. tell us about what hubby thinks k? i see this younger gen. coming up
and i think man it' has got to be pretty scary for you guys.




[edit on 26-6-2009 by randyvs]

reply to post by xynephadyn

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I'd get on with your life and enjoy it. Nothing is going to happen in 2012 apart from the usual things that happen on planet Earth.

Remember, *no one* knows what is going to happen, no matter how many Mayan calendars people have or how many "My friend says so because he's talked to aliens" people you know. Everything is pure speculation and desire. That's it.

Why stop living your life for fears of an event that *might* happen? You might as well stay indoors, cover yourself in bubble wrap and do nothing ever again.

Hell, you could be hit by a bus tomorrow, or struck by a meteorite, or get ebola, etc -- anything could happen but you still walk about right now and do what you need to do.

Why put 2012 on a pedestal? It'll just be another year and another day here on wacky planet Earth.

So relax, go start a family!

reply to post by xynephadyn

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It's really hard to be an optimist these days.
But IMO, that is what you need to be if you are going to bring another life into this world.

My wife and I have one child, arriving unexpectedly but we were both overjoyed. After a while we realised that we did not want our child to grow up without a sibling. When a parent passes on, it is good to have a brother or sister to share your grief with. And when both parents have gone, they will not be left alone.

But ultemately, we stopped at just the one. The world today is not a place I would choose as a suitable environment for a child to grow up in. And that is even without the impending doom that surrounds 2012.

Above all you must follow your heart, as a child can enrich your life like nothing else, but know that you must be prepared for the possibility of much heartache. Nothing else can hurt you more than seeing your own child in distress.

Personally, I think that world events from hereon in will just serve to strengthen the belief of those who feel that things on earth are going to get rather ugly in the run-up to 2012.
And for me, It is the welfare of our child that causes the most worry.

To me it makes the most sense for you to wait a while, but do not put your life on complete hold.

Travel, see what's left of the beauty of the world, experience new things and places while you still can. Stand on tropical shores with the waves lapping at your feet. Climb mountains, trek through valleys, and ford streams. Take in the wonders of nature that can still be found all around you. And then if the world does begin to become a better place, you have lost nothing and can still enjoy the joys of parenthood.

But, if we continue sliding down the slippery slope to global economic meltdown, NWO, pole shifts, cataclysmic earth changes and the like, you will know soon enough that you made the right decision.

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