All things are a choice.
Even the fact that you "chose" to get up and face the world today. This is not to say that homosexuality is wrong, as "wrong" is a subjective term.
But homosexuality involves choices, just the same as heterosexuality does.
I only point this out to support the following: Take accountability and responsibility for what you do in life. Don't surrender your freedom of choice so easily.
If you do not believe that homosexuality or heterosexuality is a choice, then you certainly would have no trouble explaining how monks can "choose" abstinence. By the very fact that abstinence is a choice, the opposite of abstinence, too, would be a choice.
I bring this up philosophically, not argumentatively.


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