reply to post by Desolate Cancer
No it's absolutely NOT good for you to masturbate
I had started going off on this the other day...
and got the SLAP from the mods lol, so I don't want to get to detailed nor derail this thread...
1: From a psychological perspective... your mind does NOT know the difference between fantasy and reality, if your using fantasy instead of reality to
get off you creating a fatigue of arousal... at 19 or 21 or even 25 or 28 you might not notice this...
but try 10 years into marriage when your brain thinks you have spent the last 20 years doing it in 3 somes with super models... just ain't good... in
the long run...
arousal will take more and more... sounds great when your still experimental... but what comes next? I would directly relate a rise in serious crimes
like pedophilia and bestiality to over use of porn and over use of masturbation
2: I would add to that
Tantra teaches a very different thing and my life experience confirms it
A man can have only so many orgasms even in your prime, you can never go O for O with a woman that is relaxed enough to achieve orgasm readily
If you wish to be a good lover, maintain a strong erection and make HER happy, you don't want to waste it, you want to retain Orgasm as long as
I wont even get into what women go through from men via premature ejaculation...
and masturbation does not teach you how to hold back...
further, I am quite sure it shrinks the penis, an erection is blood flow, so longer, prolonging keeps it filled with blood and expands the veins
system making for a larger erection over time
another point I would add... is damage to those same veins, the grasp of a powerful mans hand is not the gentle vaginal wall, it can't in time help
I would simply say... believe the 104 year old tantra expert, or the gym teacher with a state sponsored education
as I see it encouraging masturbation was a trick... it makes you sleepy, less motivated, keeps you at home and docile...
exactly as TPTB like you to be... without masturbation, surely men would be...far more aggressive than we are in daily life, and seeking REAL
encounters with REAL women more often
Obviously, population control is the real reason it is encourage
Kinsey knowing let people know Masturbation was okay... not a Sin, he did not however say to make it your life's work