"I am understanding the only solitary aspect you are judging my spiritual mate on is about our intimacy while tossing out everything positive. I
think that is being very selective. "
Is it really being narrow - or a bad thing to point out that a relationship no matter how many positives has a negative quality that shouldn't be
tolerated? Should a much loved wife stay in arelationship with a man who punches her once in a while - as long as she feels pleasure and security and
is loved? Or should someone say, hunny-this is sooo wrong.?
Keep in mind I said there were at least three types of Earth bounds who prey on people and that I did not know the symptoms or consequences of those
who steal sexual energy. I do not think they cause depression as the others do, but I would suspect very real spiritual consequences if your guide is
being shoved back and you listen to Earth bounds instead.
I really do not know this wizard, so I cannot judge. I can say, Your energy is your own and simple intent should be enough to bannish spirits. It's
all in 'will' but a lot of the time, when it becomes addicting- the 'will' power isn't there. Even when a medium or your wizard bannishes them-
your will may allow them to come back. Just as the police can take out a robber but if you keep that door unlocked, by golly he'll come back if he's
got his free will still.
I also know there's a slight chance you aren't receiving sexual intimacy from these spirits- they may be your guides-and men have the ability to
experience a lot sexually without being touched..It's completely normal for some men to be highly aroused and if you associated this with them and it
wasn't..that's possible too. In this case..It would be embarrassing for you perhaps to find out...but not harmful.
How do you know the spirits-? for example- I can see and hear them..and feel them. If I have a problem I will out right ask my guide.
As for guides being attached- Not in the same sense. You see, yourn Earthbound spirits are bound to you through your energy- possibly sexual energy
which may not have any consequences physically for you- yet. They will have spiritual consequences if they are blocking your guide's work. I do not
know you, so I cannot know if they have manipulated anything in your life- or if you have kids they take advantage of instead. I do not know. Not
everyone has a physical consequence, doesn't make it less wrong. It is still probably limits your spiritual awareness and progress-
Like discussing wisdom and philosophy with someone who is in prison for murder instead of the umm Dalai Lama or something..It's going to limit you
because you are talking to someone not qualified to help you and someone with their own agenda. Can you know these earthbounds history? what kind of
life had they lived before dying? Why didn't they cross over? Why do they want sexual gratification from you? If they murdered someone or raped
people while alive-would you still want them around? Any time a person says no to being touched- It is considered rape- agree? You've said no to
these beings before, you've told them to leave. Does this not make them as such? Do you feel it is safer having them in your home around your loved
ones bc they are not in the same type of physical existance you are in? I would not not want or risk a soul like this around my children, grandkids
or loved ones- once I had them of course- I am only 25.
But I can tell you, souls like this would never be allowed in my house. It's too risky-
what if one day they move on to your loved ones?
A spiritual guide is bound to you by contract- you made a mutual agreement before being born. At that time you were both on the same level of
consciousness- (Keep in mind once on Earth we lose awareness of all our lives, wisdoms, and knowledge- this includes Earth Bound souls).
So while you both could consent and understand everything- you both worked on lessons, goals, and such. They protect your energy (providing free will
you have to bypass this).
Spirit guides have no need to attach to your energy or use you. They
don't see you as a sexual object any more then you see a baby in the bathtub as such. It's just that feeling of being the care taker and the adult.
Souls may not have a physcal body, but they do have a body and can have an intimate encounter with a consenting soul who is on the same level they are
maturity wise- but---Understand how on Earth we do not have that capability to be as mature as they are there
This is VERY hard for us to understand. We have ego here and want to feel very intelligent and spiritually aware- but we are bound by physical limits
here-Which is okay...we are here to learn.
- we are like the child who hasn't grown up yet. A guide won't feel the need to abuse or take advantage of our state.
An earth bound can give you all sorts of good feelings, but you have to ask yourself- is something you asked a few times to leave you alone- Really
good if they won't back off? If you tell someone to end touching you- are they abusing the relationship if they don't stop? Isn't that abuse?
Do you ever wonder what it would be like to be in control of yourself again? your energy? and your intimate encounters? Wouldn't it be sort of a
relief to have them back off for a while and let you work things out for yourself? How is a relationship healthy no matter spirit or physical if you
asked them to leave and they don't?
Guides shouldnt be intrusive or abusive. In the end it is up to your own self. You will have to deal with all this at some point, there's a
consequence to everything- even if we don't know what that is yet-if it is here or on the spiritual plain. If you feel any ounce of wrongness, that
is within you to deal with- justify that or to end it.
Even if there is a reason they are in your life- Most karmic lessons are easily deciphered as getting rid of attachments, loving what is healthy,
letting go of anything that is negative....What if you aren't learning from your 'there's a purpose' to this..?
Again, up to you- just some things to consider.
[edit on 16-3-2010 by Zerra]