Originally posted by wclv13
BTW, if an 18 yo is that incapacitated, who was watching him? THEY should go to prison for neglect.
As the (single) parent of a young man with a similar IQ, I can tell you it's impossible to watch him all the time.
What's more, it's also not the best thing for the young man concerned.
Like my son, most adults in this IQ range are trained to take themselves to a sheltered workshop and back each day. Parents of handicapped adults have
to earn a living, shop, cook and clean, just like parents of normal adults. Parents also have to teach their children independence. I'm not going to
live forever, (I have a degenerative heart disease,) so I have to send my son out to buy food and clothing and pay bills on his own, so he can survive
without me.
Once, 10 years ago, my son held a small dinner knife to a neighbour's throat. Luckily for me the neighbour was very understanding and talked sense
into my son and got him to put the knife away and go home. Another time he got frustrated when McDonalds wouldn't honour his voucher and started
throwing tables around. Luckily a stranger stepped in and took care of him until he was calm and put him on a train home.
I will always be grateful to these people for their forbearance. Without their patience police could have been called and my son shot. Instead he's
learned better self control, and now can be trusted out on his own.
I am so glad we don't live in Texas.