posted on Jun, 10 2009 @ 06:33 AM
I just cannot figure out the girl i really like.
Maybe some members can give me an opinion here.
Okay, so we've known each other for two years, i met her through my housemate, her and him were kind of together, but it didn't last... He wasn't
really interested in her and they eventually grew apart.
Okay so me and her meet up by chance months later, catch up and decide to go out for drinks.... We do this a few more times as friends and soon
realise we like each other.
So one thing leads to another and we start seeing each other a lot more, we try and keep this quiet from my housemate (as to not rub his face in it)
but then the guilt got the better of me and i admitted what was going on.
Obviously he didn't like it... and fell out with her and to an extent me...
Anyhow, me and her decided to cool if off for a while, since things became a little strained with the revalations of me and her.
Long story short: I've recently met up with her and told her i still feel for her. She tells me she misses my housemate and that she'd just rather
be friends with me for now.... which is okay.
But then sometimes she keeps saying things like 'I had a dream, me and you were living together' and 'we should go away together sometime' .....
but when she's with her friends, she clams up and acts a little cold.....
So what i ask is: Do i stay cool and wait for her to decided what she wants? Knowing that it could possibly take forever, a potential wild goose
Do i move on.... But compromise any chance of getting with the girl i like?
(oh and please don't offer adivce that goes 'follow your heart'..... My heart is undecided LOL.