posted on Jun, 9 2009 @ 01:17 AM
Oh dont feel bad, everything in movies and entertainment is a lie.
Everything may get bad but always ends up perfect, the good guys always prevail and the evil is punished, there is no grey just black and white, them
vs. us and if you are good nothing bad will happen.
The hero always gets the girl and live happily ever after.
The truth is the world does not operate in idealism.
The problem with humanity here is that we are perfectionists, we like things perfect, and when things are not up to par we discount them assuming
something better will come. Thus some lost opportunities. And people are selfish by nature, so you will have lying, cheating, broken hearts...
As they say love is only a game of losers. Proof is the fact that we have exes. You always meet that perfect person, and have never been happier, and
think it is meant to be, and then it ends, and you are sad, and some time after the cycle repeats.
Thinking about this recently I came to the epiphany of how meaningless relationships are.
You know that feeling you get when you are having sex with someone that you think you are in love with, it is like reaching infinity, souls
intertwining, ying and yang colliding in a balance of black and white, creating a perfect circle?
When you look back at exes, how they cheated on you, how they hurt you, suddenly all those perfect moments seem diminished, seem horrible.
Each relationship is just like a pastime, to get you through to the next, a stepping stone, and each love is forgotten as soon as the next covers it
up, and you start to see that we are just animals walking on two legs, and love is the biggest fairy tale of all. More like mutual reassurance of
And it is worse for guys. We have to deal with waves of shallow, annoying, prissy, self-absorbed, careless, judgemental, narcissistic girls who then
complain about how celebrities are treated unfairly. Not to say that guys in general are better but at least you can tell right off the bat our
personalities. Girls try to hide it.
Just feel lucky that you, like me, we are still young so cannot give up.