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Originally posted by guidanceofthe third kind
was probably in the best energy state in the past month and i got called into work for 2.5 hours. Why cant the cosmos cut me some slack
Originally posted by guidanceofthe third kind
to do with my love of absorbing peoples' emotions. the negative ones are not quite so
Originally posted by bracke
I know this may sound weird but my recommendation is to drink a lot of water if you're spiritual body is failing. I have been having a really tough time. I recently drank a lot (I rarely drink this much) and luckily the heaviest rain for a long time is hailing down almost like in Amazonas and I felt a lot better. My father always use to say that I don't drink enough water and that is true.
Blessings
Originally posted by LordKnox
almost feel like the energy is trying to travel up my back and explode out. (Sounds weird, kinda like a tremor up my spine, but gets stuck at the neck. Not sure what that is about,
Originally posted by raul bloodworth
i think its worth a phone call to her to see what she thinks of this thread subject matter fitting in with her "5% theory"..
Originally posted by Jacqua
You are completely correct, --
one of the best ways of helping people to change, is just by being yourself,.... making a good impression on them by living with honesty and integrity, and all those things, -- some of it will rub off on them eventually!,
...being a good influence on people, -- I think thats more effective
I look around, and lately I am more aware of the fact that I can see the pain, sadness, and blah blah on peoples faces, --- even more so than ever before, to the point where I dont want to look at them, -- and there are days where I walk out of the house 'feeling' that sadness and pain myself, -- but I force myself to put a smile on my face, and pretend to be happy, even if it is pouring with rain and freezing cold, and somebody has just pushed past me and almost knocked me over, lol
I try offer a genuine smile and kindness to every single person I come into contact with, even if I have to force myself to do so, and even if I have to listen to their sob story and complaining...,
everybody needs a bit of kindness...
Originally posted by LordKnox
reply to post by DragonriderGal
Wow, I was actually begining to think that the whole thing was about me doubting the legitimacy of all of this, and should I really be believing it. I mean, I do, but at the same I sort of hate the idea of chasing something that isn't real. I've sort of conditioned myself to question everything to the point that I can't hardly fully believe something. Since I started following this thread though I can stand on my own two feet and say, yeah, I believe this. As difficult as it is for me to do it, and as simple as it may sound, I feel it is time to shed the blocks and start going for it. This whole thread has been ringing truth so much to me, it doesn't matter if my friends think I'm crazy any more, and I don't need someone else to tell me it's okay to believe.
Okay, that was very sloppily written, but I'm not sure how else to put it. Thanks everyone, I hope we can all learn from each other for a long, long time to come.
Originally posted by nowshining
In the end - if you truly came into contact with these beings your head would explode, or you would be in the corner rocking back and forth out of craziness because you wouldn't know what to do....
Originally posted by DragonriderGal
Thanks, Jacqua for the back up! What I have found too, is that living your life with honesty and integrity will either irritate others to the point they won't hang around (and that is a good thing!) or they will themselves start shifting because they will be 'rising' to match your pattern/example. See, we all 'dance' the pattern we learn in our family of origin until we decide we don't want to anymore. But if those around us are dancing the old pattern, when we stop, they can't dance that pattern anymore when they are around us.
So predictably, they will try to get us back into the pattern we shared, and if they can't trick, whine, guilt trip, intimidate, or force us back into it, they will either leave or adapt to the new 'steps'. You see it happen all the time in relationships where one or the other stops an addiction, like alcohol. That is why personal growth work is kinda risky. It may very well mean your current relationship won't survive, based as it is, on the old 'dance' pattern.
And living with honesty and integrity is very freeing too. You don't have to try to figure out who wants what, and what is the 'proper' way to act to get approval from so'n'so. I so love that saying "I would rather be hated for who I am, then loved for who I am not."
You can just be yourself, (and sometimes that's a challenge in itself!), but if there is something you feel you want to change, it tends to be a bit easier, since you aren't 'changing' to please someone else. There is a very real possibility the change will be successful since it is coming from an internal and personally authentic desire to do so.
And I am pretty sure this fits for all humans whether more recently aliens or not.
What you said about people not hanging around you lol, that is so true in my last job at the fashion empire!- the people that I worked with, especially the girls, just seemed to stay away from me. I used to get on with most of the guys, but the conversation was pretty much dribble, -- what did you do on the weekend? -- did you go out? -- and then it was about how wasted they got, .... I couldnt understand how they can still get 'excited' about those things...
It wasnt that the girls didnt 'like' me as such, no no... they were all very civil to me, -- they seemed to look at me with a mixture of curiosity and fear...,They never asked me to go to their lunches with them...
I used to watch them go, and Id say to myself.... welll..., I 'could' get upset about this, but honestly.... do I really want to sit there and listen to their dribble conversation...lol, No!
It was a strange thing,... well, I say 'was', but I still go in there from time to time and freelance, -- it never ceases to amaze me that out of the 50 odd in that place...there is not 'one'....not ONE single person that I can have a decent conversation with...., that I resonate with in any way... crazy!!
A lot of them drink themselves to oblivion on the weekend, and even at work, the beers start coming out at around 5.30 .... they have long since given up asking me if I want a beer,
There are days when I get so sad, and Im filled with a sense of utter amazement with these odds.....There are practically NO people in my life that I really resonate with. Sure, I have friends in other countries and other States.... but right now, right with me here, there appears to be no-one.
... Of course, I have friends that I hang around, but I cannot even get 'close' to discussing the types of topics that we address on here...
sorry for the lengthy rant guys, Ive gone off again....lol
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