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Originally posted by M157yD4wn
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i do not go clubbing mainly to get some lay. but if it comes about that i do get some, then that doesn't hurt either.
and getting to know the girl im talking to, at a club, is not how you make it seem in your statement. this is not a first date. at most there is 30 minutes total of talk between us, and depending on intent, most of that talk is complete bs. filled with lies anyway. you have no idea how many fake names i've gotten. or given for that matter.
and alcohol makes it much harder to use my critical thinking skills in assessing female age. especially when these girls already look legal age. Add alcohol an they begin to look much older than they looked before alcohol. And immaturity sounds like tipsiness.
Originally posted by Kailassa Having sex with someone you have only known 30 minutes is a form of Russian roulette. You know there could be a bullet in the barrel. Not just the bullet of a possible rape charge, but also the bullets of STDs and unplanned parenthood.
Honey, speaking as a friend, just don't do it. You know the risks. Nothing will make those risks go away,
It's are not worth it.
Originally posted by ImaginaryReality1984
The only thing i will address is the ID thing. I'm sure if a guy asks to see a girls ID when they're thinking of going home together that girl will be rather weirded out by it. So why would a guy who wants to have sex ruin his chances when he's in a club for people over 18 years of age?
When you enter that club you basically state you are 18 at least, therefore any guy who ends up with a girl from there should not be prosecuted for stat rape.
If you think the guy should go to prison, you are basically siding with a girl who has lied about her age, consensually had sex then because she gets in troble with her parents or something like that cries rape to get out of trouble.
Are you honestly telling me, that in such a specific situation that this is ok? As i said it took him a year to clear himself and the deciding factor was that the girl had claimed she was 18 by entering the club.
I'm sorry but this is not how the law works, i won't be responding to the rest of your post because as you stated at the outset you are close minded on the topic. Whilst i admire your honesty (that is sincere) i cannot abide by a closed mind who would instantly side with any woman making a claim.
I don't side with either, i wait until evidence comes along or the most convincing testimony. That is how it is supposed to work.
Your post however does make my point rather brilliantly. That men rarely get a fair trial, or even a fair police interview because the public is so biased towards the womans side.
Would you agree that studies show a stupid range of numbers in regards to the false report rate? 1-50% is nowhere near good enough for us to accurately draw opinions.
Would you also agree it is therefore a good idea to get a handle on a true figure, especially as this would stop lawyers speculating in courts.
Would you agree this is a logical, careful approach that holds no bias, only a need for clear statistics?
Would you support more specialist police officers being trained to deal with rape cases so that they can more easily tell the false accusations whilst making sure they provide better support for real victims?
Would you agree that an accusation of rape is far harsher on a persons life than an accusation of theft for example.
Would you support supression of the media speculating on cases of rape which influence the public at large. Whilst this wouldn't effect the jury on that particular case, it would effect any future jury for other cases. Obviously they should be free to comment on convicted rapists, but not on ongiong cases or simple accusations.
Finally, would you agree for harsher sentences for men and women who do falsly claim rape? Because at the moment the sentences are either short or suspended. I can understand your concern that this would discourage women from coming forward, but if we had the better trained officers this would hopefully counter that.
Sorry but i won't be bothering with it
...you are constantly speculating about either my motives or now "an imaginary female posse" so to that kind of condescension i won't reply in full...
I would point out it seems that some women in this thread did see i was not going after women or anything of that nature, some of them saw it as nothing more than a question, without bad motives.
To them i say thanks because they quashed their emotional response and read my posts for what they actually contained.
I wonder why it is you read something very different than they did?
I've had respect for you on other threads...
...but your behavior here was sad.
As for the topic itself i think it's been talked into the ground...
Originally posted by Sonya610
You act shocked and blind-sided by this response. You are not blind-sided (assuming you are a rational person).
A few months back you posted your views on rape material and you found yourself apologizing profusely as well.
Originally posted by Sonya610
So do not act like you are the victim here. If you are the victim, you set yourself up for it.
Are we then to say that rape scenes in movies give a negative view of women? I'm sure those scenes turn some people on.
It doesn't harm anyone, there is no research to say it harms anyone and in fact there are statistics to suggest it has beneficial effects!
Hold on, i don't enjoy these games, please don't insinuate i do. Unless you were talking about the people who actually do but as you've directly responded i'm not sure what you meant.
I've now asked this question to everyone i know, most of them are women. The responses are mostly in support of the game, maybe it's the type of people i surround myself with but they understand that freedom includes things existing that disgust you. All of them without exception thought this game was utterly horrific (a point i agree with) and yet only 1 wants it banned. One out of 23 i sent it to.
It's not anger, it's a sadness that some people couldn't stick on topic. But hey if you think i'm angry and that amuses you then enjoy
Originally posted by Spiramirabilis
if it amuses you to think I'll buy that - then enjoy
:-)
what you'll do to get out of responding to anybody else directly...
Originally posted by ImaginaryReality1984
Nothing but quote mining Sonya, i won't be typing a long reply because there just isn't any point. I did not back peddle, i simply stated that the game came under free speech. Oh and you forgot to quote some other bits didn't you, you forgot to quote where i say i also support the existence of games that involve men being raped.
It's a game, not real, hence allowed under free speech. Pretty simple really.
Originally posted by _Phoenix_
Just stop guys.......just stop....