Originally posted by Shoomoo
I still have had no lover in my life (I am 14 now), but I seem like a normal person. I am not ugly, not a geek, not mean, not weird, and not
inappropriate, but i still see other people (even the jerks who treat girls like crap) get girlfriends. I feel so left out, unloved, and isolated.
Do you think I am ugly? c1.ac-images.myspacecdn.com...
What should I do? Im getting depressed from this :bnghd:
Simple, because you missed the fact that women want MEN
And when I say men, i don't mean beta males. I mean ALPHA males.
Not that betas don't get girl-friends... but chances against them.
1- Looks don't matter, YOU matter!!
Don't think about girls, looks, status, whatever! Start with yourself.
Respect yourself first, and all of that WILL follow.
2. Think ALPHA.
You have to get it in your head that getting girls don't matter. Women are MUCH more likely to stick with a man who wouldn't 'need' a woman than a
man who does.
Display your powerful side. You know, the side of you that respects you enough to be unshook about what the worlds thinks of it.
It shows stability, reliability, and ultimately flares that cool effect.
3. KNOW that women WANT to be approached
Heck, its in a man's to do list to approach and get women. Heck, its in a man's agenda to take leadership.
So do just that.
But, you don't have to do point1 if your charisma is strong enough to express point 2. And if you think you don't have it, then your wrong because
4. Be your BEST self
It's that side of you that makes makes you feel 'at home' or with friends. That's your best self. Or... maybe there's better.
5. Nice guys finish last... but good guys always prevail!
Look man, look at those who are successful and understand their character. Heck look at Bruce Wayne. Take the money, cars, and power away and they can
still be cool guys.
THAT's the key.
Don't act NICE because nice is not challenging.
Because when you act NICE, you don't show your true side, just your NICE side. Woman want things to be fun and interesting. And being nice is too
easy of a victory.
Furthermore, you can't decent a persons true personality if all they get is the nice side. They want to know that they can be with somebody even
when they are at their worst.
Don't be lazy and decide not to express the sides of you that make you a great person. If you dont know what they are, find it or make it.
I was in a much worse place than you were. Its time you start respecting yourself and realize that you have the right to be you.
And I swear, the rest will follow in time.
And trust me, you want to establish that before getting a GF. Because if you don't, she WILL break your heart. Painfully.
Good luck bro. look forward to hearing great stories.
[edit on 15-9-2009 by GambitVII]