reply to post by ravenshadow13
I don't disagree with a woman making a decision not to at the age of 18
It's smart, you have many good years ahead of you to have children and, missing things like the college experience etc would always have you
wondering... what could have been, it's not the wrong choice.
It just appalls me for all the people we HELP financially in this country...
women and children are literally no priority and the sheer economic waste, when I put it in perspective, this should be the no 1 hand out, no matter
how I look at it
Your right, it would be much harder...
But not because we can't afford it, not because it's hard to be a Mom and Love
But because it's MADE hard on women
On a level I don't think our treatment of women in the west is much better than it is in the Muslim world, opposite end of the spectrum maybe but
I think, raising children is... a very important thing and no one should judge how it came about in the first place...
For starters food... we let rot in silos, this isn't a major issue
You could give a baby a Good life IF people had respect for motherhood and didn't label you a slut, that's really the bottom line...
Some colleges have day care...my old cc did
you mention the economy too
I can say only this... we pay BILLIONS to SS, no one is having babies, where is our work force? Illiterate 3rd world immigrants, who is paying that
Kids mostly grow up to be workers... there is a reason China out produces us, how they will sustain their elderly is beyond my comprehension with a
one child policy
The reality I think may well be in a generation or so, we will all face a far bigger tragedy starting with the economics of... having no work force to
support the old
and I think TPTB know this and don't give a good darn damn so long as beach front property is cheap for them and their families
your right, in regards to what you choose, to not have kids at 18
I'm just saying, it's totally wrong that you should be made to feel that your woman hood makes you less valuable then some degree or some job,
mostly we all work at stuff no one needs anyway...
30 million telemarketers in America ROFL
please...someone get these girls off the phone and let them raise kids
I just have allot of respect for mothers... They should be put on a pedastil as I see things