posted on Apr, 24 2009 @ 12:37 PM
My girlfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago. She told me yesterday that she was 7 weeks pregnant.
I broke up with her because I couldn't trust her anymore. Her drinking had gotten so bad that she would become too flirtacious with other guys, slur,
fall down, and pass out at the bar among other things.
I'm no saint. I've done some things in my past that I'm not proud of, and I used to drink very excessively myself.
Anyway we split up. Yesterday she calls me crying and It's like I already knew what she was going to say. She asked to meet for dinner and we did. I
had a shot of Bushmills and a Shiner Bock before we even started taking, she was drinking a glass of red wine when I got there.
Jess always told me that she couldn't have kids due to an irregular ovary. Needless to say we were happily, passionately careless the entire time we
were together, a little over a year. So she didn't know she was pregnant for these 7 weeks, and has been drinking like a fish, not to mention she
also takes xanax (I know, trust me I've tried to get her to stop.)
She wants to have an abortion. I don't know what I want.
I want to have a kid but not with her.
I can raise a child on my own if I have to.
I believe I would make a great Dad.
I am 100% supportive of her. I still love her, but she broke my heart and my trust.
I told her I will stand by her no matter what she decides, but our relationship as a couple will not continue.
Any feedback would be great.