posted on Apr, 16 2009 @ 05:15 PM
Originally posted by wisefoolishness
So about 6 months or so ago, my best friends dad died. He ditched his girlfriend at the time and started dating her best friend. Now at the time she
was cool, but lately I cannot stand her! My other friend and I are debating about what we should do about her, because she's really turning him into
an ass. If you look up the word whipped in the dictionary, there's probably a picture of my friend bending over so his girlfriend can brand him with
Now either me and my other friend can give him the 'Dude' talk (guys know what I'm talking about), or we can wait. Kinda reminds me of the succubus
episode of South Park.
Hopefully I've explained this well enough, if not I'll elaborate as asked. What do you guys think I should do?
From my experience with friends and bestfriends, I have found that everyone changes, people go on with their lives, and what you have now in a
friendship won't be the same in the future. As you grow older, your friends will likely become more independent, distant, and they will dwell more
with their mates, families, children, and at their workplaces.
The best advice that I could give to you is this, let your bestfriend continue on into his relationship or fling, and less than a year from now, your
friend and his g/f or fling, they will not be together anymore. Infactuation never seems to last very long, and I don't even know them, but I can
almost guarantee that the two of them and their raging hormones aren't ready to have a real commitment with true Love. I've seen it many times
before, and I might know of one or two people that are with their high school sweethearts; the other 10000 are either single, or married, and they
made that decision many years after they hit puberty, not a few years after!
The 16 and 18 year old thing, it's not that big of a deal. If he was 28 and she was 16, then there might be issues. But that's a matter of opinion I
Oh, and since we are all people with feelings, I think that it is a good idea to try and make good with everybody you can; and yes, this includes the
girl you don't like. It's unfortunate that your friend got with his exes bestfriend, that just goes to show how teens can act, selfishly and they
are relentless in doing that.
Take care and good fortune to ya.