First thing my grandmother taught me about dowsing was that you have to concentrate on the task at hand. Do not let your mind wander. Do not jump to a
conclusion. Let the pendulum show you what it wants to tell you.
Plainly spoken: Don’t try to make the pendulum do what you think is right.
Hold the string or chain between your thumb and first finger with the string hanging over your first finger somewhere between the tip and first
bending place (sorry lack of proper English knowledge and I can’t be bothered to look it up). This will allow you to relax and hold the pose for
longer. If you strain too much your muscles will start to twitch and ruin your effort.
Make sure you have the pendulum at an absolute resting state. No motion.
DO NOT TRY TO START ANY MOTION YOURSELF. If there is anything to show and you have the ability, the pendulum will soon enough start its cycle.
There will be some arguments here as to what makes the pendulum start swinging. Bear with me – I’ll get back to precisely this point.
When I dowse for unborn child gender (UCG) I always do it on the wrist. There is no need to do it over the stomach as some people are want to do. You
do have to remove any bracelets or watch worn on the chosen wrist.
To bring the pendulum to rest I usually lower it enough to touch the wrist in this way using the wrist a stop block. Then I slowly raise it till about
one inch above the wrist. And wait.
After a short time the pendulum starts to move and I have seen others do it as well and their pattern is not always the same as mine. Their
interpretations are based on their particular patterns. Mine are based on my patterns.
For me the pendulum starts to circle then it stops. Next movement could be a sweeping motion across the wrist or along the wrist. Then it stops. Then
it repeats either of the mentioned motions. If it shows a circle the dowsing is over and that’s it.
Circle, across, across, along, circle.
For me that means girl, girl, boy.
Circle, circle
No children.
OK. Now it becomes a bit more complicated.
Often the two persons (the couple) involved have the same pattern. The pattern can change on a person. When I first noticed this change of pattern it
was on my older sister and her boyfriend. At a party where we again had a bit of fun with the pendulum she and her boyfriend turned out to have
different patterns and last time I had dowsed them they were similar. She immediately laughed out that perhaps I shouldn’t be so sure on myself when
I claimed that this dowsing actually worked. The whole party laughed and we went on with the dinner.
Two months later she had left her boyfriend.
After that I always dowsed the woman, never her partner. Whenever they asked me to try them again and the pattern had changed I usually tried to find
something like “moving house”, “loosing a family member” or “becoming vegetarian” as plausible reasons for the change.
After a while I only told them of the next child – not the children to come after. That way I could keep out of trouble so to speak.
And after 56 dowsing sessions on pregnant and non-pregnant women, I have successfully predicted the gender in 52 cases. In my book that is pretty
damned good.
I stopped doing this on a regular basis because I had my colleague’s daughter coming around for the third time. She had had two girls (as I
predicted) and now she wanted to know the gender of the child she was carrying. I told her it would be another girl and she went and had an abortion,
because she and her husband wanted a boy.
That was a bit too close and I decided to hold back and not announce anywhere that I could do this. Some have found out and come on their own accord,
but I don’t advertise in any way.


) as a rule suggest tall dark men to blonde women and
tall blue eyed blond men to brunettes? 
As we discussed before taking a scientific
approach to paranormal phenomena can be inherently more difficult than examining the observable universe, in most cases anyway. 