posted on Mar, 18 2009 @ 10:43 AM
Thanks. Let me see if I can try to explain things a little better, I think I've been having a problem effectively explaining this.
In my dream I just saw what seemed like a photo of a girl, and thought maybe her name was Rebbecca. About 2 months later (just a few days ago) when
scrolling through yahoo personals I came across a pic of the girl who looked like the girl from my dream. Her name was Regina, which I thought was
pretty close to what I thought I heard in my dream, "Rebbecca".
Then, I saw a particular photo of her in her profile. It was the photo I saw in my dream. I thought it was very interesting, but I do sometimes see
things that I have dreamed of earlier. I left the website and was just thinking maybe I will send her a message in the future.
This is the important part:
At this point I was really just kind of dismissing it as an interesting thing but then I logged off of the website and immediately saw an e-mail from
someone named "Regina". I just got done reading a "Regina's" profile. But thought this was nothing, it must be someone else.
The e-mail was in response to and ad I placed in craigslist a few weeks prior. I to replied to that e-mail and then she sent her pic. It was the same
She didn't even know that I had seen her profile on yahoo personals, and in her profile it said that she hadn't visited or logged onto her profile
for 2 weeks.
I have always had these little premonition dreams, where I would see an object in my dream, then find that object the next day or later. They have
never been about a person before and they are very infrequent. But I have never had such a synchronized event like that happen after having one of
It scared me. Made me a little nervous.
The girl responded to my craigslist ad which was placed in the "strictly platonic" section, meaning I wasn't looking for love or romance. I was
just interested in talking to a girl about music, art, writing, and even cooking. I thought maybe after some talking via e-mail, maybe I would call
her, and then maybe go see some live music with her. (I take things in small steps like that.)
So, we wrote a few times to each other. Just some things like how we cook sauce (we're both from Italian ancestry) and about music, she happens to be
a singer and I'm a bass player.
Now, I started to wonder why that synchronicity thing occurred. I do keep my mind open to the idea that maybe when something like that happens, maybe
there is a reason. I thought maybe she had something to say to me, or maybe I had something to say to her. As simple as that. Not thinking she is my
soul mate, or we were meant to be together, etc. (I have no idea who the heck she is at this point, or if I would even like her.)
I thought I should at least try to continue a dialog with her, then maybe call her, etc. Maybe after that something would be revealed. Maybe just
something as small as one of us had advice for the other, or maybe nothing.
I thought that this was interesting enough for me to at least look into.
So, I thought maybe I should tell her what I experienced. I thought I'll probably not hear from her again, she'll think I'm nuts. Regardless, I
wrote the e-mail explaining all of this and sent it.
She did reply saying she didn't think I was nuts, etc. She said that she did believe things happen for a reason and that we met for a reason..., and
that she wanted to continue talking, but that she is not too fond of e-mailing. So I thought that meant she wanted me to call her.
I thought, ok, I'll probably call her soon. But I really wanted to get more of an idea of who I would be talking to before calling, I wanted to
correspond through e-mail a few more times.
So I wrote back saying that I would be approaching this as a "curious, potential friend, if possible..." I was being honest with her, I'm not
thinking she's my soul mate, etc. etc. I needed to get to know her more to even pursue a possible friendship.
She replied that that would be fine. Then I wrote back a day later and decided to show her what I do (I make experimental music machines) and I sent
her a link to my YouTube page where I have some little demos of the weird machines I make.
I suggested to her in that last e-mail that maybe we can share our interests in music by sharing links to music videos on youtube, and she can also
see the machines I've created. I thought this was a great way to share similar interests and maybe she can turn me onto the music shes likes, etc.
I thought this would be a great way forward, we would have more to talk about when I called her.
But then I never received a reply to that e-mail. It's been 3 days. I thought maybe the dream, etc. freaked her out after she thought about it some
more, or maybe the e-mail got tossed into her spam folder because I put a couple of links in it.
Or maybe she thought my machines were so weird, and I must be weird too. Which wouldn't be untrue.
In either case, I'm starting to think that the dream and the synchronicity that occurred may have nothing to do with her. It was probably just an
interesting thing my brain made happen, for reasons I'll never know.
I don't think I'll ever hear back from her. Although, now I'm starting to think that it's a big possibility that the last e-mail I sent her got
tossed into her spam folder. And now I'm thinking (maybe) I should send just one last e-mail asking if she got my last one.
I'm afraid to seem like a weirdo internet stalker though.
Should I send one more e-mail? Or should I just forget this now?