This is good!
Your thinking about the unlimited future possibilites! That's a good step from your depression in my opinion.
I have also thought about going to stay in Japan or south Korea for a while, it's on my list of things to do one day, just for a while.
Korean girls are great too, the girls I have met have had some very interesting fun personalties, be careful thou, it's hard not to fall in love with
these girls, don't get you heart broken
I also love korean movies!
I say you research all the things before you go, for example how do other foreigners feel there, I've heard that a lot love it more than their home.
But just make sure you understand more about their culture, and possible dangers of any racism etc.
Like you said your son is the only problem.
I say you can do it, as long as you remember to always keep in contact with your son, and go see him whenever possible! Holidays etc, even invite him
But I don't know your son, it could be hard for your son, he might think you don't love him etc. So if you do decide to go, make sure you have a
good long conversation with him, remind him you will always love him and see him all the time.
It's complicated, and I'm not you, so I don't know. But I think it's a great thing that your focusing on the future and not the past! Keep it
[edit on 27-2-2009 by _Phoenix_]