reply to post by Demetre
hehe your school's version of playing doctors seems to be a lot tamer than my school
My head spins that the police were called on a 7? year old girl! Did they take her down the station and swab her, book her in to the sex offender
list? Scary, poor girl's confused and no one is making her life any simpler.
Please, please can people have some restraint when pointing the molester accusation - it doesn't help anyone, not everyone that experiments sexually
was molested and if her addled little mind start to fixate on the idea she is a 'sexual victim' it's going to seriously hinder her development both
mental, social and sexual.
You no doubt think it is far to early for her to think about sex but alas society bombards her day and night with images and storys all centered on
sexual desire -not just adverts, television and media but most areas of life weather subtle or not sex it a central subject - plus of course human
biology and inquisitiveness play part -romeo and juliet were only 13 years old remember, historically mariage and the hunnymoon was common by 12 years
old. It's not impossible that this was #fairly# innocent.
From the little we know of her parents it seems she has lived a hard life, this could well be a call for attention - she should be given every chance
to get the attention without going too far, instead of acting like she's the devil someone should listen to her and help her work out her issues,
then she should understand that she can't cross certain lines if she wants to survive within society.
If an adult was in the next room then the friend being 'molested' #could# have called out for help, i don't want to go all biblical and stone rape
victims for not calling out (Lev) but maybe when questioned about her part in this 'lurid act' she decided it was best to act the total victim -kids
are like this, hehe i remember as a wee nipper me and my friend getting in trouble for calling those dirty lines you see advertised in the back of the
local news paper -when questioned i admitted that i had let my friend use the phone -haha kids don't like being in trouble, i no doubt cryied and
pleeded to get out of the punishment too (but didn't) AND pretended i felt really bad and was bullied into by my manipulative friend!
Again, i should say i don't know enough to pass judgment nor could anyone but these things are never as clear cut as they may seem, i highly doubt a
seven year old is able to be a child molester but something unapropriate did occur and as a mother it's your duty to make sure your children are
safe, just try to make sure you don't mess up your kids head while doing it.
meh, the pessimist in me says it's too late CPS will force her through all manor of institutional hurdles and she'll probably end up in an awful
carehome or some crazy foster home addicted to a string of pharmasuticals prescribed to fix her spiraling behavior problems,until she's kicked out on
the world with no real family ties, a deep resentment to the world and a hunger for a quick fix emotional cure such as cheep sex or strong drugs.
meh, she'll live a pained and seemingly pointless life stuck in te slum cycle.