posted on Mar, 27 2009 @ 12:49 AM
Hey my friend. I do appreciate the comment. Thank you so much.
Honestly, the person she has become is not responsible.
He already has a lot of dirt, if he chose to use it. Pictures, family testimonials. She will freely tell some people how she feels, what she does.
But I think a private investigator might get a little more definite evidence. But you can look at her and tell she's high as a kite.
See, my brother fears hurting his wife. He doesn't want to hurt her. But someone has to make it clear to her that her actions aren't acceptable.
Or, she might not see the light. She's pretty much abandoned the kids, except for maybe seeing them briefly during the week. It's all about her
now, her partying, her new boyfriend, her piercings, and tattoos.
It's awful. And I do feel bad for her, because she is destroying herself. And her "doctor" is giving her the bullets to do it. She was never
what I would call perfect, but at least she had a sense of family before. She said she loved her kids in the past. It's an awful change of
character. She now says she is the happiest she has been, but anyone who knows anything about drug use, knows this is false, and things eventually
crash on you. This is the same girl who stood up for her kids and refused to continue to give them Psychiatric medications, but yet she's the one
I've had my party years with alcohol myself, but I know you can't spend a lifetime partying like mad. The body won't take it. I kick back some
beers on occasion, more on a few occasions, but for the most part, I don't drink much.
I don't have a problem with people partying, you know drinking a little, on occasion, getting a tattoo or anything, but "this" is insane. She is
skinny, and her eyes are sunken in her head.
We could handle the fact that she may not want to be with my brother. Fine. But 4 kids are now dumped on my parents to babysit after mom gets off of
midnight shift. So they are essentially pulling a 16 hour shift 5 days a week, not counting travel, etc. My brother can't really afford a baby
sitter on his pay. The wife said, she's not going to babysit on her days off, because she has to do for her. Her time to rebel, and all that stuff.
Her party time.
Honestly, he should file for full custody, and she should be made to be responsible for those kids, and pay out some money. But my family can't get
my brother to see that. She has to be made responsible. Those are her kids. To let her by with this, would do even more harm to her. Honestly,
right now, she shouldn't be driving or anything, because she is constantly drugged. She could kill someone on those roads, perhaps her own kids, if
she ever has them out.
[edit on 27-3-2009 by cybertroy]