posted on Feb, 10 2009 @ 07:55 PM
I would tell them this:
That sex is a natural phenomena, and when you are young it can be one of the greatest gifts and the most pleasurable too.
But often people are manipulated into having sex before they are truly ready, and that is shame. Because when love and only love is between two people
that have a sexual attraction it has a quality of bliss, of a higher spiritual energy.
Yet when it is time and you are ready, and two hearts are prepared in all responsible manner first such as complete protection, then the next step is
to go to the local clinic or your Doctor and GET AIDS tested.
If he/she truly loves you, then they will understand. It has nothing to with being a virgin either, it has to do with responsibility in this day and
And if they cannot be mature enough to discuss openly all the aspects of becoming sexually active with you, eye to eye honest, then STOP!!!
Go no further with this person, cry, eat a container of hagendas or a box of chocolate, but STOP before you make a huge mistake.
There is nothing greater than young love, but be prepared and responsible.