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Originally posted by Alxandro
I can only tell you what worked for me years ago.
I came to realize women loves a--holes just as much as men love b-tches.
It takes a little bit of acting on your part but if you let your feelings be known, just a little, and amplify that tenfold, women tend to do a double take.
Originally posted by Obliv_au
like you say, they expect YOU to change.
they cant accept you as you are
they wont change themself or their own attitude.
it is YOU, the MALE who has the issue and are at fault.
Originally posted by americandingbat
reply to post by XTexan
People always talk about how women choose guys who will be bad for them, but I think it's at least as common for men to choose women who are bad for them.
Originally posted by thehumbleone
There are a couple of fatal mistakes I believe most nice guys make. One of them is that typical "nice guys" fail to make their sexual nature known to a woman. So at worst, the woman does not even have any idea if this man has any sexual interest in her. Woman want to know that their romantic and sexual feelings are going to be reciprocated.
This is a big one, so pay attention. I believe "nice guys" usually operate from a point of view that puts them in a lower social status than the women, hence giving her all their power. In other words, they are operating from a position where they believe the woman has higher status than them. A big no-no.
Women do not - let me repeat that - DO NOT go for men who they deem as having lower status than them. Sucking up to her, giving her compliments every two seconds, being needy and feeling the urge to call her every five minutes are all signs that you care about this one woman way too much. Getting serious way too soon can and WILL scare women away.
YOU are the prize, and don't ever forget it.
How do I know all this you ask? Well because I used to be that stereotypical nice guy. Don't get me wrong, I still am "nice."
One of the biggest dating conundrums is that people think it's the "nice boy" versus the "bad boy." It is not. It's between weak guys and strong guys.
[edit on 2/9/2009 by thehumbleone]
Originally posted by Jess_Undefined
I always wondered the same thing. I dont get it. My sister always liked the Jerks. It never made sense to me.
I was always into the nerdy star wars guys. Never liked the pretty boy type, never will.
Originally posted by thehumbleone
reply to post by Simplynoone
What can I say? I guess I just understand women!
Haha just joking. I might know what attracts them, but I still don't have a clue in hell what they are thinking.