reply to post by mushninja
Men have very few rights when it comes to their children.
The courts looks upon children like the woman's property and many women are using their children as pawns to "get back" at their ex.
They will manipulate and play all kinds of games.
Try to alienate your child/children against you.
Grab as much of your money as possible (my ex daughter in law gets 42% of my son's paycheck).
If you lose your job, tough shi* the woman can then have you thrown into jail for not being able to pay "child support".
The law was originally set up to protect the weak and innocent but times have changed and women are no longer weak or innocent.
Many not all, twist and bend the laws to dole out punishment and grab money that many times never is used for supporting the child. Many young women
have learned to use the system to their advantage with no regard for their child or the person that helped create that sweet little life.
So many children now are being raised in single parent households and have lost out on knowing their father and father's parents (the paternal grand
My son is the one who diapered and fed our grand daughter while mom "went to night school" (come to find out 3 nights at school, 1 night out with a
lover). My son developed a close bond with his daughter, because he was the main care giver while an infant. She still cries when she has to "go
back to mom" (she is 7). Joint custody is a joke. For dad that means 48 hours every two weeks IF mom doesn't play games.
Sometimes my son has to drive 45 miles to pick up his daugher.
Our courts are discriminatory against men BIG TIME. Women have all the power and many abuse that power for their self gratification at the expense of
the child and their child's father.
Young men out there BEWARE. Really get to know someone before you slip on that ring and say I do.
You risk the possiblity of missing school plays and other milestones if "mom" doesn't want to "share".
My son doesn't know where Alexis goes to school
Doesn't know where she lives
Has no way of reaching his daughter if an emergency arises
Must hand over 42% of his paycheck
Doesn't see or hear from Alexis every other holiday
Has to endure knowing his daughter has been exposed to five different men in the six years.
His daughter crying when it's time to get ready to "go back to mom"
and the endless hate games, games and more games "mom" seems to love to play.
Courts award children to the "mother" 80% of the time. They do not check to see if "mom" does drugs, drinks, sleeps around with every tom, dick
Many children are used as battering rams and everyone wonders why we have to build more prisons every year.
So many children are ignored by our "system of justice".
Marriage is a legal contract and men have little or no rights.
Women now seem to think it's cute to "have the baby experience" minus the "marriage experience". They use the man as a free insemination
Our country is now flooded with young women that have the "cute spoiled princess syndrome" and Hollywood as well as our courts promote it.
Our laws no longer protect the innocent.
It still takes two to make a baby and that child deserves to have a heritage. That heritage includes BOTH mother and father as well as maternal and
When people use to own slaves one of the worst things they could do was separate the family unit and that is what is being allowed to happen now. So
many children separated from their father and his side of the family.
Watch the movie "Gone Baby Gone" starring Morgan Freeman. That is a very accurate portrayal of our social laws at present.
My grand daughter sees her mother maybe 20 minutes a day, most of the time she is left "with any babysitter" and soon, she will be "just another
key latch kid". Her last comment to me was "Why can't I live with Papa, he's the one who really loves me?". It breaks my heart each time she
starts to sob as my son is putting on her coat.
She throws her little arms around my neck and doesn't want to let go.
Children need to be raised in a loving, stable and supervised home enviroment or they turn out to be miserable maladjusted adults.
[edit on 6-2-2009 by ofhumandescent]