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Originally posted by mushninja
reply to post by Res Ipsa
If you have the slightest inkling about getting into family law you should. There needs to be more advocates for just child support enforcement and fathers rights. Your pain and personal experince would probably make you quite profecient once you got past the cutthroat aspects and learned your way around the flaws in the system.
Originally posted by EdWardMD
reply to post by mushninja
Mush,
Yes, it's what we all feel. It's only a half step short of your childs death. It is devasting. The most devasting thing to happen to me. Nothing even close in comparison. Hang in there. As you can see there are many in your shoes and remember there are others that are worse off. Hopefully, that is of some help to you. Take the advice on all calls, dealings, conversations, if you can't tape record in your state, stop and write it down, use a message machine for any calls from your ex, DOCUMENT, DOCUMENT, DOCUMENT.
Ed
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Percentage of non-custodial mothers who pay child support in Canada: 1%
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Percentage of custodial mothers awarded child support orders: 94%
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Percentage of custodial fathers awarded child support orders: 30%
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Rate for men failing in their appeals with the Appeal Court of Ontario: 92%
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Ratio of women vs. men who gain sole custody: 7 to 1
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The biggest group of so-called deadbeats is women, not men: there are more than twice as many
women non-custodial parents evading child support than men.
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93% of female non-custodial parents don't pay any child support
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Less than 9% of parents believe Canadian Courts deal effectively with ‘access’.
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70% of marriage break-up is instigated by women.
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The only group which benefits from an improved standard of living after divorce is high-income
women.
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Biased courts force men to pay up to 8.5 times the average of women at the same income levels.
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Judges award high income women more child support than low income women, for the same father
income.
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Custody and access problems cost parents and society more than is paid in child support.
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The actual percentage of fathers not paying child support and thus allowing men as a group to
inherit the term “dead-beat Dad” is between 7 and 13%.
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Child Support Guidelines" are used by biased courts to sharply increase the percentage of fathers
shut out of children's lives.
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Canada's Supreme Court says women win in family court because of their sex, not by "merit".
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4 out of 5 repeat young offenders are single parent children.
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82% of crime is from repeat young offenders
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An estimated 3-5 divorced and separated fathers commit suicide every day
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There are no shelters for men in Canada
Sources: Glenn Cheriton-Child Support, Divorce, Custody, Access & Government Policies (1998) ISBN 0-88970-101-6,
Commoners' Publishing, Ottawa 1998. Statscan, FACT-Fathers are Capable Too, various other Fathers Rights organizations and contributing individuals
Originally posted by Mintwithahole.
My ex left me and stopped me seeing my daughter and then tried to take my house away! Fortunately she didn't get anywhere so she stopped me seeing my little girl. I was warned if I caused trouble I would be taken to court. That was nine years ago. I have long since given up any hope of seeing her and if I'm truly honest, I've lost all interest for the last couple of years.
If you want to get anywhere in this life the number one rule is, don't get married and for gods sake don't have kids! The consequences if your relationship goes wrong are potentially fatal. . . Just look at the number of fathers who have had mental breakdowns and committed suicide.