posted on Feb, 4 2009 @ 08:30 PM
Originally posted by mushninja
reply to post by Res Ipsa
I don't want to give up but I'm beating my head against a wall and getting no where. I used to rush home from work so I could make sure I got to be
the one to feed him and wipe the strained peas from his chin and make him laugh that big toothless laugh. Now he calls someone else daddy and I don't
even know him....I can take a lot, and have in my short life, but this is...I don't even know.
...do you believe me when I tell you that I know how you feel?
...you are not alone.
...you may not understand this, or believe this, but try to look at this as an opportunity...find a "Father's support" group. Reflect on what
things you might have taken for granted before.
I do not believe that "challenges" that get thrown at us are for no purpose.
Yeah, what doesn't kill us makes us stronger.....sounds great but over simplified to the point you want to punch the person that says that to us.
...If you aren't spiritual then I can't tell you or suggest anything that might work.
....geez, now I'm getting like Dr. Ed (by the way, whom I am soooo greatful for helping me settle down and think straight on getting rid of my other
...nobody who hasn't gone through this can tell you anything.....but that now reminds me of your last post...........don't wish for some woman to go
through this or be glad that she is.....its wrong....if anything you should feel bad for her too......Stop thinking about yourself and think about the
Your kid is being harmed by you not being in his life. (given you the benefit of all doubt.) Why wish that woman the same taste if she did nothing
wrong? Don't let yourself stoop to that level.
You know I empathize with you to the nth degree but I won't say its ok to wish some good mother go through what we are as revenge.