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Originally posted by nixie_nox
Just don't stop trying to see your kid. When he gets old enough, he will start resenting her for keeping you away. Let him know everytime that you do see him that you love him and you are there for him no matter what.
Don't ever badmouth her, bring up the divorce, teh boyfriend, nothing.
There is nothign worse to a child then being brought into the middle of it.
Originally posted by EdWardMD
reply to post by Res Ipsa
LOL, can't handle life? Amazing they seemed to handle it pretty well up until then. You haven't seen squat to what could happen to you. I hope you never find out what those men found. Amazing you could pass those lifes off with a 'can't handle life'. No wonder there is no help for you, them or the family unit. Break the back of the family unit and you break the back of resistance to government tyranny.
Once again I have no idea what you are trying to say
Are you implying that I'm lying about going through, right now, what Mush is? Did you bother to read my post?
Do you understand that I believe the destruction of the family unit is one of the worst things that can happen to society?
Do you understand that I blame the "no fault" divorce?
Suicide is not the answer....Homicide is not the answer either.
Life isn't fair and when you get screwed, when you get "BETRAYED" life sucks but you are not alone. Suicide is for cowards.
Originally posted by mushninja
reply to post by Mintwithahole.
As hearbreaking as it is I'm to the same point you are. Just take whats left of my rights and responcibliltys away if this is how it is going to be. When I do see him for a while on a random visit we don't even know what to say or do with each other, I don't even know my own son, and haven't for a half his life now (he is 7). I just found out on Christmas day she has him calling this guy daddy. She took the one thing left that I was clinging to, Boy Scouts. That c**t has always known that I wanted to be deeply involved with scouting and my son and just the other week she took time out of her day to call just to let me know how much my son likes going to cub scouts with her man. F**cking b***h, she knew how important that was to me, my dad was heavily involved with me and scouting right up until he died when I was ten and I wanted to carry it on with my son. I'm tired of being forced to live on a fence. I can't continue like this and it's not fair to him either. I want my fatherhood restored or just cut me out...