I will try to answer your questions based on what I have personally read and also witnessed.
1.) Yes I do believe that religion is here as a form of control.
2.) The christian based religions tell you that if you do not follow the rules layed out before you then you will burn in the pits of hell for all
eternity. Thats control right there.
3.) Explained in 2.
4.) I still do believe, but I do not believe what I am told that I should believe. Instead I choose to believe that there is a higher power that some
would call a god, but I refuse to believe that what is written in the bible are actually his/jesus' words. I have played the game of telling a story
on one side of a room to see how much it changes by the time it reaches the other side of the room. Now play that game back in the era when the bible
was written except ten fold. I also choose to believe that a god would be more tollerant of his people/followers.
5.) I used to be a catholic, and now I believe what I have written above. (well a much more ellaborate version.)
6.) I am not
7.) I am not
8.) I am not
9.) For some reason I don't think that god looks any different than you or I. I also do not think that he/she would act any different than any other
caring kind individual.
Those are my honest answers. I would ellaborate more on some, but this is one subject that I remain slightly guarded about.