Ok, I'm scared to death, honestly... (mason/family related), page 2

okay. so i talked to my father lastnight and he was going on about some odd stuff, very personal which i wont get into on here, but more so confirming to me that he is a selfish #.

anyways. out of the blue and totally unrelated to the topic, he asks me, again, what exactly is the name of the place im working at. i started working at this place in october (before the other job i had once i moved down here) and told him all of the details. several times since, in fact. and why was he asking again? he even got the location mixed up as well. thing is, the job is north of the city and will be moving to a totally other city, closer to me nextyear. hes been told this many times, and still forgot? anyways, the way he asked was weird. and i said, ive told you this before.. why are you asking? and he stumbles on his words and just says.. "oh.. um.. uh someone asked me the other day where you were working, the name of the place and i said i didnt know. you probably told me, but i didnt know.. and they thought it was odd that i didnt know." um...
so, i repeat myself again, as i told him THE WEEK I WAS ACTUALLY OFFERED THE JOB.. and he starts drilling me about it.. questioning it, "well i thought it was in *other city insterted here*. i replied, "they are moving there nextyear. i told you.. they are in the process.."
he says "well why is it taking so long? i thought they were already moved there?"
"No... i told you before, they are moving it and everything wont be done and setup till nextyear..."

so, im assuming.. hes probably either gonna check up on me, as he always does.. or send a mason checking up after me.
sad thing is.. the supervisor's own father and brothers are masons.
the supervisor is not, but his family is. he doesnt support the masons, either. for various reasons.

but what the hell??

and also, this is a thing thats gotten me a bit puzzled.

why is it everytime i go to call him back... he doesnt pick up. then he calls back about 2 mins later. i do wonder if hes recording phone convos though. cause he was suspected of doing so before in the past with others. knowing crap that was strictly only mentioned over the phone between my mom and someone else or me and her. or vice versa.. and the landline phone would beep all the time and do weird stuff. also, he'll call me as im at work, in the morning, when he knows damn well im working.. like if i hadnt called him up in.. 3 days or some crap.
ill be in the middle of soemthing, and yes, its a hospital setting.. and i cant keep being bugged. so... he calls me when he knows im at work and just be annoying, and would keep calling.. and calling till i answer... "just wanted to know you're okay!" in this snotty ass tone which he always talks in and im telling him, look, i really cant talk, im a work.
then he gets all weird.

oh, sorry... i cant do other stuff in my adult life? i have to call him constantly?

so, is there anyway i can tell if hes recording my convos?

hes had no access to my new phone as i got it once i moved down here.
but his own phone... im not sure if its got anything on it. all i know is its a sprint.
dont they have "record phone calls" options on them?? to record actual convos between both ends?