Originally posted by heyo
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The damage I say would be to her dignity. She is essentially putting a upc code on herself and treating/viewing/advertising herself as an object.
Meh. It isnt as though in her life she isnt going to end up sleeping with at least one guy that thinks she is an object even if she herself happens
to think there is more interest on his part.
I dont think I would have done this if I had thought about it back then, but losing ones virginity is not always a pleasant experience for the female.
I know plenty of women who would just rather forget the whole thing, even if they thought they were in love with the person at the time. Me for
example. Lol.
At least this girl isnt getting conned by some loser that has that strong urge to just "be the first" with no real interest in her as a person.
(I've seen that happen before) She is trading something men really seem to care about for something she cares about. Sounds like a fair deal to me.