reply to post by TasteTheMagick
I'd like to address your comment, if I may?
"Let's say I'm pregnant and know I can not raise the child properly, or that I know it would suffer pain it's whole life, OR that I am unprepared
for raising the child. Let's say I was raped. That this was not a child that love created."
I believe every life is precious, and although this child was not created by 2 people who loved each other, I do believe that love created this child.
That love is God who created everyone and everything in the universe. Now I know,
you will strongly disagree, try and hear me out.
None of us know what tomorrow will bring. To say "I know it would suffer pain it's whole life" is to say you are All knowing and can predict the
events,
of the future. That simply is not possible. Do you get up everyday knowing exactly what that day will bring? Have you ever been surprised by
something that happened in your life?
You have condemned an innocent life based on illogical emotion. Yes it is traumatic for the mother but those initial feelings won't last a
lifetime. Trust
me I know from first hand experience. At first, it seems like a vicious trap, a constant reminder, but that baby is part of the mother That baby
represents the most incredible bond there is on this planet. No one has the right to decide for a helpless child that they are worthless and should
die.
As far as adoption, it is very difficult in America to adopt an American new born. The wait is extremely long and it is very expensive. This I
know. My best friend has been waiting on a baby for a very long time. Most agencies
pay top dollar for newborns. That money could help the mother start to rebuild her life. It really doesn't matter what the options are but I don't
see
taking an innocent life as one.