Well, most of the time, the title of this post is true.

- What is driving me to write this? Well, I've had just about enough! Today on the metro (subway) I noticed 2 guys looking at me; the gangster wanna-be type... I heared them mutter something along the lines 'it's a girl? No, it's a guy, and they were laughing... - Now; I am a musician, I have long hair. - I also have beautiful eyes with long eyelashes that LOOKS like I'm wearing mascara, that even my X girlfriend envied.

I'm REALLY stressed these days, with the world falling into a pit of hell while everyone is concerned with the wrong things & are not even looking at the info they need to know. - I have been working on a website for 2 years, & I may not even be able to pay my internet bill, so I'm worried about not being able to update it... - So I just blew up, but I controlled myself to an extent.

I hit the chair next to me to show my disgust at their way of thinking & I glared right back at them with a look that was so cold, it could've frozen a fire.
They could have been simply immature fools, but in most cases, an expressed opposition to what people may assume to be homosexuality is due to them actually being attracted, yet they cannot admit it due to peer pressure. - I know this for a FACT. - Most of my 'strait' friends, and many people I have met wanted to have sex with me. ... So... I come to the conclusion that most people are bisexual, and get all worked up about their TRUE feelings, but like knowing about conspiracies & holding back on talking about it, they refrain from spreading the word for feear of ridicule.



Mode edit: Added question mark in title on author's request

[edit on 14 Oct 2009 by Hellmutt]

Homophobic = Insecure with true sexual feelings

^^^^^

I am SICK AND TIRED of hearing this crap. It's SOOOOOOOOOO bogus. Lemme guess, since I don't like x-box I hate microsoft right?

[edit on 11-1-2009 by The Scarecrow]

I think the term 'homophobic' is a contradiction in itself.

I never met a gay guy I was ever 'scared of'

(Well, I always wondered about Mike Tyson's lisp,now THAT would be scary. )

As for the OP ..

I'm a musician,I used to have long hair and had the same reaction from others.But I'm not gay...

So ...should I have considered them 'homophobic'?
Or just the sad sub-life they were?

someone wise (not me) said on ATS once that they disagreed with the whole...if you hate gay people it means you secretly harbour homosexual feelings. They said that was rubbish. If that were true, people who hate peadophiles secretly want to abuse children. And taking it a step further, because i hate mangoes, it must mean i secretly REALLY want to taste one.

I'm very tired and i so i'll just say i agree with sc2099 and leave it at that.

Originally posted by Time=Now

1)My main point is: I'm TIRED OF PEOPLE JUDGING OTHERS FOR THE WAY THEY LOOK,


2)such as this new emo crap

Now take a look at these two sentences written by yourself.
Do you not notice anything 'slightly hypocritical' about it?

You just made a judgment on an psychological/emotional level.
For some reason,you don't like the 'Emo' look...therefore it must be 'crap'

Don't get me wrong,I'm not trying to pick on you,just pointing out the fact that it is simply a human response.

Hoodies = Burglars/hidden knives/handbag snatcher/gym goer
Bling = pimps/rappers/Jimmy saville/Mr T
Ripped jeans = 80's big hair rocker/need diet
Leather = biker/whips/chains
Suits = respectable/mafia/job interview
Yellow vest,Pink shorts and rollerblades = 'Agent T's day out '

It's a psychological need to 'categorise' things,to give some kind of order to life,items,people,situations.
Only when it's pushed on to other people does it become discriminatory or 'prejudiced'.

I kinda like the emo look... But I also loved 'The Vampire Lovers' and 'Buffy the Vampire slayer'

Awww... why didn't Darla ever call me back?...

with reguards to the thread title, not the thread subject (which seem to be 2 slightly different subjects loosley interlinked) Yes, some people who are homophobic are sexually confused. but then, some people who are branded as homophobic , just don't like the act of gay sex. It turns them off, repulses them even. And that's just fine!! that doesn't make them homophobes. it just makes them straight.

As for getting stick cos of how you look. that's sh#t in anyones language. And people who do this crap, are just little pillocks who deserve nothing but contempt.

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[edit on 25/2/2009 by Acidtastic]

dude life's a beach if the worst thing in your life is that someone thinks your gay who cares? are your gay? if not then who cares what they think. if you are then sort out your own emotions on the subject. it doesnt really matter at the end of the day.

people are categorizing machines we love to put things into boxes and label things, its what we do, its our nature its how we understand the world. in the instance you pointed out i can understand you feeling angry at what was being said. but at the end of the day everybody is entitled to their own opinions. it may be stupid insecure or childish but how will people ever learn if they dont make mistakes.

what would be the point of existence if everybody was born perfect? and never made a mistake and everything was perfect. we define our lives by the drama within it. most people wish their lives were simple and carefree but never take steps to accomplish this. anyway my point is dont let peoples opinions get to you. we are all human for better or worse. the idea is to rise above our own imperfections not focus on other peoples. they will do that when the time is right for them.

anyway best of luck

Real men wear pink..

and lemon..
and shirts with pictures of bugs bunny on them..

and dayglo..

Originally posted by AGENT_T
Real men wear pink..

and lemon..
and shirts with pictures of bugs bunny on them..

and dayglo..

lol yeah i heard a rumor going around better spread the word

Homophobia being related to (some degree of) homosexual desires is not unheard of. I'm bi and am fairly open about it, but I wasn't always. Before I accepted it in myself I was overly homophobic.

There has been one study done that suggested about half of homophobic guys are repressing something. If I recall, they got a swag of "strait" guys (half of whom claimed to be homophobic) and sat them individually in a both with some lude material. Lesbian porn, strait porn and gay porn. They all got aroused with the strait and lesbian material. When it came to the gay porn none of the non-phobic guys responded, but half of the homophobic guys did get aroused.

It was true for me, bound to be true for others too.

[edit on 25-2-2009 by Welfhard]