First off, there are loads and loads of video games that have no violence in them whatsoever that are, were or always will be great games.
Zelda, Mario, Tony Hawk Pro Skater, Katamari Damacy, Tetris, Crash Bandicoot, some sports games, driving games (Gran Turismo, Burnout) and many others
I'm forgetting.
The thing is violence is in just about everything. Cable TV, movies, music, sports, wrestling, video games and other things. Not only that, but our
history is full of instances where this country uses violence and war to solve problems with other countries just like many people do to solve
problems with other people. This, to me, is bigger than any of the others. It seems we need to go to war at least once a decade. The content in
sports, movies, TV, video games and music are a reflection of what we have become through things like the frequent wars and the glorification of the
violence therein and parents not being parents and teaching their kids the difference between fantasy in things like video games and reality.
Look closer at sports like football and hockey. Purely violent sports, no doubt about it. When someone is laid out on the football field, the one that
put the hit on goes nuts and shows off to the crowd while many of his teammates come over and congratulate him. You'll no doubt see this hit replayed
several times, then you'll see it more on sportscenter on the "Jacked Up" segment of football shows dedicated to nothing but brutal hits. When
someone is rammed into the boards in hockey, the crowd goes wild and even more so if a fight breaks out. Yet, somehow, most fans of hockey and
football know that they can't go down to the ice skating rink and shoulder check people into the boards and they know they can't go to restaurants
and lay out the server and chefs if they screw up their order and if you don't know that, that's a problem in your head and has nothing to do with
sports, video games or whatever else you do.
Face it, this country is fascinated with violence and like sex, violence sells. The product meets the market. To say that video games causes people to
be violent sounds ridiculous to me. I don't play games as much as I used to, but most of the ones I enjoy have some degree of violence in them and I
am about as anti-violent as they get when it comes to reality. If anything, violent games is a consequence free release where you can kill people or
go driving at over 150mph and wreck other cars without worrying about being chased by cops and if you are chased by cops, you can run them off the
road too with zero consequences. That's the beauty of video games; no consequences, but once you put the controller down, you snap back into reality
where consequences of going to jail or even getting yourself killed are very real.
Fortunately, I was taught right from wrong and that things like movies and video games are just that, movies and video games; fantasy, not reality.
When the line between the two is blurred, that's when you can have some problems.
[edit on 8-1-2009 by Kratos1220]




and so i dont use games to relieve stress, i dont have any negative energy in the first place 